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Benefits of Chastity
For such a simple thing, the benefits a sissy can gain from wearing chastity are astounding! If you’re reading this, then chances are you’re at least a little curious about locking your “cock” ? so let’s look at some of the plus points you can expect when you take the plunge, admit you should be locked, and order a chastity cage.
Focus on your sissification
Once you can’t stroke anymore, you can focus on approaching your body in a much more feminine manner. All that wasted time can be much more productively spent on your sissification.
This can be done when you’re unlocked, but when you’re in a cage, it becomes the norm instead of an optional extra that you need to work at.
It’s easier to focus on fashion or makeup when you’re locked (because you’re not going to get distracted by the pretty ladies), and watching porn becomes something inspirational that you can learn from instead of something to get yourself off to. Chastity wearing can be difficult and uncomfortable at first. We have created a chastity class for beginners so that you can extend your locking time from a few hours to a few months.
Purge resistance
I’ve lost count of the number of e-mails and DM I get saying, “I really want to be a proper sissy, but every time I cum, I lose the urge.” Often, when I point out, “then stop coming,” it’s like I said, the moon is made of elephants!
Many sissies get stuck in a cycle of starting their sissification, then they release and pause things (or swear off it forever), and a week or two passes, and they start again. Locking yourself safely away stops all of this.
Once you can’t have a release, you can progress past this and reach the point where purging (and even the threat of purging) simply disappears because your sissy side becomes accepted as a valid part of your identity.
Stress relief
I imagine you’ve heard that jerking off relieves stress, and this is true, but pretty much any aerobic activity is equally as good. Locking yourself up can cause a little tension in the short term as your body adapts to the cage and its new situation, but after a couple of days, your base level of stress will drop significantly.
An erect cock is a cause of stress and erotic tension because it’s a sign that you need to do something, and it’s constantly calling out for your attention. Once you remove your ability to become erect, that stress ceases to exist, and even better, your mood will even out a lot.
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Emotional responsiveness
When you’re locked, your ego gets suppressed, and this makes it a lot harder for you to feel angry or frustrated, and you’ll be able to hear your emotions much more clearly. This is something a lot of sissies are surprised by, even though it goes hand in hand with what we’ve just talked about. Once you’re locked, you become much more emotionally available and caring.
One of our students wrote to tell us that they’d realized that once they’d started to wear a cage regularly, they had begun to focus more on the needs of others which had benefited their marriage and their work.
Energy
Not being at the beck and call of your clit gives you so much free energy that you won’t know what to do with it all. A lot of sissies lose weight when they start wearing a cage, and it’s because they become much more in touch with their body, and their newfound energy makes exercise much more appealing.
Eroticism
Your sissy sexuality will become supercharged. Everyone (hopefully) knows that if you can’t release, your arousal will climb and climb, but the things you watch and read and listen to will become so much more arousing and impactful too.
Imagine you’re watching a sissy hypno video. Text is flashing up, “you’re not a man,” “feminize yourself,” “no pussy for you,” and so on. Just watching this normally is hot, and it’s how a lot of people find their way to sissification, but watching it when you’re locked makes it so much hotter!
When you’re wearing a cage, you’re not a man because you can’t fulfill the sexual role of a male. You’ve already started to feminize yourself, and of course, there’s no pussy for you; you’ve locked yourself in a cage! Chastity makes it hotter because it makes it real.
Releases
As well as making it so much easier for you to work on your sissygasm (because you can’t “slip” when you’re bouncing on a dildo and “accidentally” start stroking when you’re locked) when you do unlock after a while in chastity any releases, you will blow your silly sissy mind. Whether you stroke, use a vibrator, or just cum in your panties because the sensation of them rubbing on your sissy clit is too much, locking yourself up for at least a week will give you mind blowing orgasms.
This will also push you to lock for longer…if it’s that good after a week, how about two…or a month…or a year?
If you don’t have any experience but want to get started, our “Chastity Training: Beginner” course will talk you through picking out the right cage to start with and build you up so you can lock for a week.
If you’re comfortable with the basics, look into our “Locked in chastity” assignments which let you pick how long you want to be locked for and keep you horny with daily tasks.
What are you waiting for? If you want the benefits, you need to start locking yourself!
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Reading makes me more confident and clearly realize the benefits of lock cock. I will buy and lock my cock and watch sissy hypnosis videos. I want to learn more about sissylover… It is my dream to be a sissy slut
I just wanted to say about the “purge resistance” part, that in my case, I find that I didn’t loose the urge after cuming in chastity compared to just stroking. I have develloped a way to cum in chastisty by humping a pillow with a plug in my bussy, after I orgasm with this method, I feel satisfied and released, but when I just stroke and cum, I don’t feel anything particuliar. So, it’s just my observation, but cuming like a girl seem more appropriate to me than cuming like a man.
Love this article. And it’s true the mental aspect of caging cannot be understated. It’s like flipping a switch for me. 🙂 I was in my cage for only 2 or 3 days (first time caged more than an hour) and I found myself bouncing and riding my toys like a pro. It ended with a massive sissygasm without me touching even my cage at all. I may have to look into how to avoid sissygasming so easily…
From what I have been reading here about chasity I’ve come to realize the purpose and importance of it. In my experience in life I have discovered that arousal is very motivating and life affirming. Very femininity and lust inspiring as well. I noticed long ago that when I’m turned on my desires to be and be perceived as feminine, as a woman are at the forefront of my mind. The same goes for my desires to be sexualy intimate with a man. The more aroused that I get the stronger those desires become. But, unfortunately, I have also discovered that one I’ve spilled my seed, those desires instantly evaporate, to be be replaced with confusion and self doubt. I know that such desires are very much a part of who I am, but I’m still left with the fear that I’ve just been deluding myself. I’ve always lack the self control, as well as the understanding of how to keep from blowing my wad when I’m really turned on. When I’m super aroused for days on end, I find that I don’t ever want to cut. But I can’t hold out against the overwhelming urge to pleasure myself. I feel most alive when I’m aroused. I feel happiest when I’m aroused. I feel most like my true, full self when I’m aroused. I never knew that there was a way to keep that arousal going for days, weeks, maybe even months on end and still be able to enjoy the sensuality of pleasuring myself on a regular, if not daily basis. Now that I know about charity, I truly believe that I have in me that which it takes to live my life as a woman in the way I have always desired to. I think that is way the very idea of being as sissy appeals to me. Being a sissy has the potential of making all of my life long dreams cum true. (Pun very much intended.) I so find the that I love the idea of being a sissy. Pretty much everything that I’ve discovered in my research of what it is to be a sissy feels very much like me. I’ve never been much of a man. Never really had a problem with that. Never really wanted to be a man. I thought that I wanted to be a woman. But that never really felt right, or like me either. I don’t really want to be a woman, per say. What I really want is to be feminine. Who knew that I’d find what I want and what I am as a sissy. I can see myself being a very proud sissy.
I have been very lucky and have trained myself to not get erect and only have sissygasms. From not being touched my small clit has gotten way smaller and the head now looks like a large clit. The shaft has withdrawn into my body and the only thing showing is the head. I wish I would have known about caging, it would have made training myself so much easier. Ecstatic to be in this academy! So much knowledge to make my transition to a total sissy slut so much easier.
After reading this article, thinking of getting the FuFu Clip chastity trainer. From what I see, it would give me a smooth appearance that almost looks like a pussy. Specially, now that I don’t get hard and only the head shows. It would look like a pussy with a large clit. Will drive my lovers crazy!