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Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?
Let’s imagine for a moment. You are a masculine guy. You’re attracted to women, you have male friends, everything is normal from the outside. But then, there’s that time of day when you’re on your own. You’re horny. You log on to a porn site. And certain fantasies begin to take hold.
1. You watch the girl on the screen sucking that huge, heavy cock, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like in your mouth.
2. Your own cock twitches at the thought. Maybe you go looking for some captions, or a video – something that really explores cock sucking as a fetish.
3. Soon enough, you’re shooting your load. Shooting your load at the thought of being made to suck cock.
4. You might look at the cum dripping down your shaft and wonder what it would taste like…
5. Then, finally, you come to your senses, and the realisation hits you. You just got turned on, thinking about sucking cock. And you’re left asking yourself…
… Am I Gay?
The simple answer is no, of course. If you even have to ask, that should be enough to show you that you’re not secretly gay deep down. After all, you’re still turned on by girls, aren’t you? The real question is this:
Are you bisexual, or is this just a fetish?
That’s right – it’s actually very common for straight men to fantasies of sucking cock. It’s a very normal fetish for straight guys to have, and it does not make you gay.
You can think of it like just another fetish. It doesn’t make you a freak if you’re turned on by feet, or turned on by the idea of being dominated. Thinking about cock is no different, sweetie. Just thinking about cock doesn’t change anything about who you are. It doesn’t change your identity, or your orientation. It’s just a thought, and it’s just a fetish.
But if you’re not gay, how did you end up being so turned on by the idea of sucking cock? To answer that, we’ll need to dive into a little philosophy, psychology, and sociology, and by the end of it I hope you will have learned something about your sexuality, your fetishes, and maybe even your gender identity.
Strap yourself in, sissybitch.
Part One: Cock-sucking is your Fetish
You’ve always thought of yourself as a straight boy, right? Well, I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong. So let’s make it clear:
- Spending hours thinking about cock doesn’t mean you want to look at cock.
- Wanting to look at a rock hard cock doesn’t mean you want to touch a cock.
- Wanting to touch a hot, throbbing cock doesn’t mean you want to suck a cock.
- Wanting to suck a thick cock, and feel it push open your mouth, doesn’t mean you want to get fucked by a cock.
- And wanting to get bent over, your panties ripped off, and to take that powerful cock deep inside your sissy-cunt… Still Doesn’t Make You Gay.
I can prove it to you.
Do you think about going on romantic dates with men? Do you think about kissing men? If one of your guy-friends made a move on you, would you feel happy, or uncomfortable? You see, you can have a super-strong craving for cock inside you, but it doesn’t mean you’re attracted to guys. Just Cock.
Not men. Just Cock. Attraction to cock isn’t a sexual orientation – it’s a fetish. So let’s talk about kinks and fetishes.
A “kink” is anything you enjoy doing that other people might think is taboo. And a “fetish” is just anything specific that makes you aroused, other than thoughts of having sex. You know, you could think of people who like to look at a women’s breasts as having a ‘breast fetish’ – there are cultures in the world where it’s perfectly normal for women to wear nothing to cover their breasts, and it doesn’t send the men into a sexual craze. But when breasts are covered up, when a society makes it taboo and sexual to look at a woman’s breasts, it plants a seed in your brain. Sexual curiosity starts to grow.
The world says that you’re not allowed to be gay. You’re not supposed to even think about hard, cum-dripping cock. You’re not allowed to be feminine. You’re not allowed to dress like a slut. You’re not allowed to be a sissy. But the more the world tells you that you’re not allowed something, the more you want it. It’s inevitable, really. The stronger the taboo, the stronger the fetish.
Part Two: You Are Normal.
You might think that the world is divided into Straight, Gay, and a handful of bisexual outliers. If that was true it would mean that if you even had the slightest thought about sucking cock, then you’re likely a complete, raging homosexual.
What a silly idea.
Even most bisexual men are more attracted to women than they are to men. Sexuality is a spectrum, and we’ve known this for a long time. This is a diagram first published in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 report “Sexuality in the human male”:
Kinsey came up with a simple 7-point scale, intending to show that sexuality is fluid – and more importantly, that it can change. First, I want to show you responses from a 2015 survey of people from the UK:
The important point here is that the number of bisexual people massively outweighs the number of people who identify as exclusively gay. And less than *half* of people aged 18-24 identify as exclusively straight these days, as our society has changed to be more accepting of different sexualities.
But those men who are able to admit that they are turned on by the idea of cock – how many of them would actually be interested in having a relationship with another man? Most of them probably still identify as straight, because they know that having some fantasies of sucking cock doesn’t make you gay.
Part Three: Who’s afraid of being a sissy?
Dressing up like a girl doesn’t make you a girl, just like sucking cock doesn’t make you gay. Feeling romantically attracted to men and only men is what makes a person gay. Likewise, feeling like you are truly a girl, identifying as a girl is what would make you a girl. Otherwise, you’re just a sissy.
Being a sissy doesn’t have to be about questioning your gender identity. But it does have to be about questioning certain stereotypes. Why shouldn’t you wear makeup? Why shouldn’t you wear dresses? Why shouldn’t you act like a slut? Who’s decided all of these restrictions that “real men” have to obey?
You know what – deciding to put on a pair of lace panties was one of the bravest things you’ve ever done. – Deciding to buy yourself a dildo and practice sucking it.
– Deciding to choose a feminine name for yourself.
You’ve deliberately crossed a boundary that most men would be terrified to cross.
You might be worried about your sissy-interests making you ‘weak’ or ‘less of a real man’, or a ‘beta’ – but who is braver?
A man who refuses to ever wear ‘girly’ panties?
Or a man who does so openly?
A man afraid to be seen as feminine?
Or a man who calls himself a sissy-bitch?
DIVE DEEPER
You’ve had the courage to explore things that ‘Alpha’ men would wimp out of if given the opportunity. You’ve opened the door to experiences that ‘alpha’ Men would shy away from, no matter how good they feel. Can you imagine a Super-Straight, Alpha man fingering his prostate until he orgasms? Do you think he’d be brave enough to take that step? Or would he be too caught up in the idea that “I can’t do that, that would make me gay”?
You know better than that.
And because you know better, you can go even further.
You can suck every cock you find on Grindr, and it won’t make you gay.
You can meet men who know exactly how to pound your prostate and make your sissy-clit squirt, and it won’t make you gay. You can have guy after guy fuck and use you. You can have a male Master or Daddy own you. You can be a sissy bitch for life.
It Doesn’t Make You Gay.
So, what do you think, sweetie? Has this helped reassure you? Are you ready to go out there and start sucking cock like a good girl? Leave a comment below to let us know.
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Wow this is so reassuring!
Im gonna start with my friends slowly, because most of them know im a little bi .
Reading this is exciting and thrilling
Im gonna take on cocks now every week of not having to worry that im gay or something.
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I get so turned on watching a sissy duck cocktail I imagine om the one getting his dick sucked then I imagine I’m the sexy dick sucker
I’m very pleased with this article
It makes me brave for a little bit to desire what I want to do it’s my body to take care of even if it’s a secret for now
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Very good article
In 2nd grade, I wanted to sleep (cuddle) with a girl in my class, but I never did. I’ve never had that feeling about a boy or man, so I know I’m straight. I sucked one cock however, 27 yrs ago and now have a strong desire to do it again and again. Secretly, I love dressing feminine. At age 8, I tried on my 1st panty, mom’s nylon briefs. OMG, I’d never felt so excited. I’m so much older now and not only want, but need to feel like a girl, a sissy. I’m naturally submissive. I crave being feminized by a mistress and used as her creampie clean up girl and cock loving, cum hungry sissy slut. It doesn’t make me gay. I still love women. I just want to feel feminine, to experience the power, the taboo of tasting another man’s cum and feeling him penetrate me with his hard cock. Once I do this, I won’t stop. Long ago, I got scared and ran away after apologizing to the stranger, not satisfying him in a private booth I’d invited him into by leaving the door unlocked. I’m ready now to be straight, yet give pleasure to men in every way a sissy slut can. In doing so, I know that, I too will be rewarded and feel pleasure like never before
Yes it really feels like a tear between identities. My “male-alpha” side isn’t too scared to try anything. With fear immersion training I know how to approach intimidating circumstances. But I’ve always been at odds with “being gay”. I don’t care for the crowd or politics so much. It’s just not that. What it is, is just as she says… a cock fetish. And any bigger than my own I can submit and be a sissy slut for.
the article was very helpful, i am ready and craving to suck cock, and start my sissy training
O.M.G…..This made me so F’ng horny just reading it! I want to be a sissy soooo bad. I want to learn how to deepthroat and be used.
Omg I love this!!
The way I’ve always seen it is, the things I do as my girly self, with men, only proves I’m straight right!? 🙂
Nice artical. It really helps me understand why I love to suck cock so much. I get wild when i got a nice thick cock in my mouth. I love it so much i almost cum. I know if i was to be fucked while i was sucking a cock id probably have the biggest orgasm of my life.
I consider myself to be straight. But once I sucked my first cock, I instantly got hooked! Playing with another man’s cock is such a turn on. Fondling and stroking it, watching and feeling it growing harder and harder. Teasing it with my lips and tongue. Slowly licking it from his full aching balls all the way up to the swollen head like a ice cream cone. Then slowly push his hard throbbing cock through my lips into my hungry mouth. Slowly start bobbing my head up and down on his hard shaft. Tasting his pre-cum, getting soooo horny and turned on. Hearing him moan and feeling him squirm around. Waiting for his hard throbbing cock to erupt like a volcano in my hungry mouth. Swallowing mouthful after mouthful of his hot delicious cum down my throat. I keep sucking until I’ve drained his full aching balls completely dry! I keep sucking for as long as he can stand it. Take a short break and start all over again. Over and over again and again until he can’t cum anymore!!!!
Reading this article has calmed me down, now I know that I am a sissy, that I like to dress as a girl, go out at night looking for cocks, suck penises and swallow semen. Thanks for helping me understand it. Kisses.
This was a novel take. I’ve always been attracted to cock and the act of being a sissy bitch to a dominant man, but I’m not even remotely attracted to men.
I enjoy wearing bras and panties, even go outside at night wearing, I’m hoping to suck cock, do cock throtting, get jizzed on, eat cum, get my face slapped by cock, have men play with my cock in my panty, get spanked,.I’m not into anal,
This was very relatable I wish I had read this sooner I’ve just excepted that I’m bi even though I’m not romantically attracted to men and I even told a phew people I’m bi now I know I just have a cock fettish and like being a sissy
I’m not gay and I don’t watch gay porn, but I would love to suck a dick, sometimes I see it in my dreams
Mmmm, I bounce and squirmed just thinking about how good it feels to lose control of my urges to suck big fat precum dripping cocks. I <3 pre and spanks. Feel free to leave a spank on my comment~
If sucking cock doesn’t make you gay, I’ve wasted a lot of blow jobs over the years!
Finally found an article that actually relates to my situation. Straight man here -> love cis girls and all that jazz but also Straight man here -> LOVES: cock, cum , spit and a specially fantasize about trans women with hard cocks
ever since I was again sissy b**** on men’s pleasure I want to pursue this life and become the prettiest girl in the the neighborhood maybe I’ll be more despite mistress I love cleaning and being neat everything in order and I obey maybe I’ll be able to MEET this week a beautiful Mistress who’s elegant attractive and HOT 🔥🥵 powerful and gentle at the same time
what a wonderful article, it really calmed me down
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This is such a good read. Wife passed and since I’ve really grown attracted to men. I still find chicks attractive too but I’ve had time to think and I do think I’m ready to be who I’ve always been which is a girl. I’ve consulted with doctors and surgery starts next month. Being a guy just isn’t me I’m such a feminine person right now. I hope those that feel like me will think on it and make the best decision for them. As for does sucking cock make someone gay? No it just means they like a variety and have the balls or soon to be my case ovaries to actually do it. When I walk outside with makeup my hair done and in a sexy skirt plenty of guys who call themselves straight have hit on me. One of them got their cock sucked by meeeeee. Just have fun people!