Sucking Cock - Does it make you gay?
20
Apr
Sissy Mind & Psychology

Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?

Let’s imagine for a moment. You are a masculine guy. You’re attracted to women, you have male friends, everything is normal from the outside. But then, there’s that time of day when you’re on your own. You’re horny. You log on to a porn site. And certain fantasies begin to take hold.

1. You watch the girl on the screen sucking that huge, heavy cock, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like in your mouth.

2. Your own cock twitches at the thought. Maybe you go looking for some captions, or a video – something that really explores cock sucking as a fetish.

3. Soon enough, you’re shooting your load. Shooting your load at the thought of being made to suck cock.

4. You might look at the cum dripping down your shaft and wonder what it would taste like…

5. Then, finally, you come to your senses, and the realisation hits you. You just got turned on, thinking about sucking cock. And you’re left asking yourself…

… Am I Gay?

The simple answer is no, of course. If you even have to ask, that should be enough to show you that you’re not secretly gay deep down. After all, you’re still turned on by girls, aren’t you? The real question is this:

Are you bisexual, or is this just a fetish?

That’s right – it’s actually very common for straight men to fantasies of sucking cock. It’s a very normal fetish for straight guys to have, and it does not make you gay.

You can think of it like just another fetish. It doesn’t make you a freak if you’re turned on by feet, or turned on by the idea of being dominated. Thinking about cock is no different, sweetie. Just thinking about cock doesn’t change anything about who you are. It doesn’t change your identity, or your orientation. It’s just a thought, and it’s just a fetish.

But if you’re not gay, how did you end up being so turned on by the idea of sucking cock? To answer that, we’ll need to dive into a little philosophy, psychology, and sociology, and by the end of it I hope you will have learned something about your sexuality, your fetishes, and maybe even your gender identity.

Strap yourself in, sissybitch.

Part One: Cock-sucking is your Fetish

You’ve always thought of yourself as a straight boy, right? Well, I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong. So let’s make it clear:

  • Spending hours thinking about cock doesn’t mean you want to look at cock.
  • Wanting to look at a rock hard cock doesn’t mean you want to touch a cock.
  • Wanting to touch a hot, throbbing cock doesn’t mean you want to suck a cock.
  • Wanting to suck a thick cock, and feel it push open your mouth, doesn’t mean you want to get fucked by a cock.
  • And wanting to get bent over, your panties ripped off, and to take that powerful cock deep inside your sissy-cunt… Still Doesn’t Make You Gay.

I can prove it to you.

Do you think about going on romantic dates with men? Do you think about kissing men? If one of your guy-friends made a move on you, would you feel happy, or uncomfortable? You see, you can have a super-strong craving for cock inside you, but it doesn’t mean you’re attracted to guys. Just Cock. 

Not men. Just Cock. Attraction to cock isn’t a sexual orientation – it’s a fetish. So let’s talk about kinks and fetishes.

A “kink” is anything you enjoy doing that other people might think is taboo. And a “fetish” is just anything specific that makes you aroused, other than thoughts of having sex. You know, you could think of people who like to look at a women’s breasts as having a ‘breast fetish’ – there are cultures in the world where it’s perfectly normal for women to wear nothing to cover their breasts, and it doesn’t send the men into a sexual craze. But when breasts are covered up, when a society makes it taboo and sexual to look at a woman’s breasts, it plants a seed in your brain. Sexual curiosity starts to grow.

The world says that you’re not allowed to be gay. You’re not supposed to even think about hard, cum-dripping cock. You’re not allowed to be feminine. You’re not allowed to dress like a slut. You’re not allowed to be a sissy. But the more the world tells you that you’re not allowed something, the more you want it. It’s inevitable, really. The stronger the taboo, the stronger the fetish.

Part Two: You Are Normal.

You might think that the world is divided into Straight, Gay, and a handful of bisexual outliers. If that was true it would mean that if you even had the slightest thought about sucking cock, then you’re likely a complete, raging homosexual.

What a silly idea.

Even most bisexual men are more attracted to women than they are to men. Sexuality is a spectrum, and we’ve known this for a long time. This is a diagram first published in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 report “Sexuality in the human male”:

“The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats.… The living world is a continuum.” – Alfred Kinsey. 

Kinsey came up with a simple 7-point scale, intending to show that sexuality is fluid – and more importantly, that it can change. First, I want to show you responses from a 2015 survey of people from the UK:

The important point here is that the number of bisexual people massively outweighs the number of people who identify as exclusively gay. And less than *half* of people aged 18-24 identify as exclusively straight these days, as our society has changed to be more accepting of different sexualities.

But those men who are able to admit that they are turned on by the idea of cock – how many of them would actually be interested in having a relationship with another man? Most of them probably still identify as straight, because they know that having some fantasies of sucking cock doesn’t make you gay.

Part Three: Who’s afraid of being a sissy?

Dressing up like a girl doesn’t make you a girl, just like sucking cock doesn’t make you gay. Feeling romantically attracted to men and only men is what makes a person gay. Likewise, feeling like you are truly a girl, identifying as a girl is what would make you a girl. Otherwise, you’re just a sissy.

Being a sissy doesn’t have to be about questioning your gender identity. But it does have to be about questioning certain stereotypes. Why shouldn’t you wear makeup? Why shouldn’t you wear dresses? Why shouldn’t you act like a slut? Who’s decided all of these restrictions that “real men” have to obey?

You know what – deciding to put on a pair of lace panties was one of the bravest things you’ve ever done. – Deciding to buy yourself a dildo and practice sucking it.
– Deciding to choose a feminine name for yourself.
You’ve deliberately crossed a boundary that most men would be terrified to cross. 

You might be worried about your sissy-interests making you ‘weak’ or ‘less of a real man’, or a ‘beta’ – but who is braver?

A man who refuses to ever wear ‘girly’ panties?
Or a man who does so openly? 

A man afraid to be seen as feminine?
Or a man who calls himself a sissy-bitch?

DIVE DEEPER

You’ve had the courage to explore things that ‘Alpha’ men would wimp out of if given the opportunity. You’ve opened the door to experiences that ‘alpha’ Men would shy away from, no matter how good they feel. Can you imagine a Super-Straight, Alpha man fingering his prostate until he orgasms? Do you think he’d be brave enough to take that step? Or would he be too caught up in the idea that “I can’t do that, that would make me gay”?

You know better than that. 

And because you know better, you can go even further. 

You can suck every cock you find on Grindr, and it won’t make you gay.

You can meet men who know exactly how to pound your prostate and make your sissy-clit squirt, and it won’t make you gay. You can have guy after guy fuck and use you. You can have a male Master or Daddy own you. You can be a sissy bitch for life. 

It Doesn’t Make You Gay.

So, what do you think, sweetie? Has this helped reassure you? Are you ready to go out there and start sucking cock like a good girl? Leave a comment below to let us know.

246 thoughts on “Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?”

  1. Sissy madison says:

    Thank you so much for this. I struggle so much with the gay question, as i am a sissy faggot, but never physically attracted to a Man. I do have the opportunity to serve a Gay Man, as his sissy slave, but have had such terrible hangups about it. I do want him to use me sexually, but when it comes to taking that first step i am scared. I am a 67 year old, married but separated and have been pussy free for 12 years. I think i can wrap my head around it better now.

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  3. Dana Fleming says:

    I was so turned on by this article. I am so attracted to sissys and their femme cocks. I am not interested in men, just sissys cocks. Guess that makes me a sissy lesbian!

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  4. Sissy Jennifer says:

    Such insightful perspective. This is one of those reads that targets your inner most secrets and says “me too babe, and it’s totally OK.”. Thank you for this. Not everything rings true, but there’s soul in these words. Thank you as well from all the other sissies out there, who just want to be comfortable and true to themselves. You know us all so very well. Loved it! 💕

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    • Sissy Jennifer says:

      “True” as in true to my unique little brand of weird and crazy stuff… The words themselves couldn’t be truer.

      I felt I needed to clarify that.

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  5. Prissy says:

    It doesn’t matter to me if i am labeled Gay, however, i am attracted to Men. The only way that i am attracted to girls is that i want to be like Her. I love sucking Cock and having romance with a Man. If i sexually wanted other girls, then I guess i would be a Lesbian.
    All of us girls want to be pretty and feminized. Making true love with a precious Cock is wonderful!!! Call me Gay if you want to.

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  9. Ashleigh says:

    This post really helps put in perspective a lot of anxiety and fears about taking the next step. I have begun an important journey in my life and it’s made easier to relate to others who are just as sissy as me

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  10. silkteddy says:

    I will Do EVERYTHING….. EVERYTHING !! To be CUMMING a PERFECT LOVER to ALL my Sissy sweet GAY GURLS… I soooooo LOVE Them ALL..!!! teddi

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  15. Jezzebellia says:

    I dont care if it makes me gay or hetero or bi or anything else… I love the feeling of that sexy tip against the back of my throat as i choke down a rock hard chunk of cock. Licking those balls from the asshole up to the cummy little slit in the helmit, and feeling them cover your entire face on the way up, makes me feel like such a good little slut, that any names or adjectives do not matter to me, i love sucking dick. If it makes me gay great! If bi because i like pussy too… Wte! Im a cocksucker and im proud of it!
    Now…who wants a blowjob?

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  19. Michael Tyndall says:

    No it does not I love to suck cock especially a big black one they are just so damn hott I can’t control myself I give good no great head

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  23. sissy donna says:

    I love to suck off big Black Men in the dirty GLORY HOLE, and always swallow all their delicious cum and piss,and i LOVE to stick my sissy tongue up their ass and swallow every thing,like a good sissy cum slut whore!

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  24. Dianacd22 says:

    My desire to suck cock has been growing quite a bit recently. I have a wonderful girlfriend who enjoys and encourages me to dress and be more feminine. I want her to be with me the first time I take a cock into my mouth. I know it will happen soon.

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  25. Matti says:

    This article was excellent, I loved it for I am yet to but have been fantiscising about sucking a big cock and swallowing its big load or taking it allover my face for quite a while now, and had wondered the same am i gay? I really dont care for guys but would love a trans w a big cock i can suck. i get so turned on and put on lingerie and think about it every day. Who wants to help me suck my first cock. I need it.

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  26. Brandyluv says:

    Loved reading this article. I think of myself as a sissy faggot but have not come out of the closet. I certainly don’t feel gay, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, it’s just not me. I want cock not a romance with a guy. You articulated that expertly and simply. Thank you. ❤️

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  27. Lana Princess says:

    Thank-you for writing this article. I have though about this and couldn’t really qualify this in my mind. But you have laid out the concept so brilliantly. The thought of having a boyfriend is ridiculous to me, but sucking a guy off in a safe environment is definitely a fantasy.

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  28. Destiny says:

    I know I’m a sissy cross dresser and I really do greatly enjoy sucking cock. I believe I’m on the spectrum toward Gay but being with another cross dresser is the ultimate for me. Not sure what that makes me, maybe pansexual. Don’t really care about the label. Just want to dress up and enjoy

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  29. Mark says:

    Im a sissy that has been trained by my sexy wife she forced me into panties and trained me o dick sucking im now a dick sucking cuckold sissy that loves sucking on a big 10 inch cock my little dick is 41/2 inches rock hard i know my place my little dick cant satisfy a women my wife knows this that is why she turned me into the sissy cuckold i am and i love it

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  31. DreamingAllDay says:

    I didn’t become a woman when I was young enough to do it convincingly.
    I crossdressed and loved it, but enjoyed my male identity and did not want to give that, or the women up.
    I went through several purchase-and-purge cycles as I sorted out my identity.
    Now, in the back half of my life, I want to be feminized completely, including facelift and other surgery to become as young-looking and sexy as possible.
    I want to be gang fucked in both ends as a woman, and record it on video, so I can masturbate and re-live my fantasy over and over.
    Even with all the spyware to view my activities online, I don’t care who knows.
    I know there are so many of us, but we just can’t claim our sexuality for whatever reason.
    It does require commitment and sacrifice for an unknowable outcome.

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  32. Rachel Ho says:

    That was so informative, I’m a crossdresser. But I’m only attracted to other CD, tranny’s and Feminine guys. Regular men, especially when they have beard’s don’t do anything for me. Hairy men are actually a major turn off. I feel better about exploring my sissy side more. Thank you for answering every question I ever had about my secret lifestyle.

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  34. sissy donna says:

    Hello,i just love to suck off very big BLACK DICKS and swallow all the cum they have to give a slut like me.,,,,,i love it….yesterday i sucked off 12 big Black Dicks and drank so much piss that i have forgotten how much i swallowed!….To day i will be taken to the dirty toilet hole by all the Black Men and made to suck and swallow every thing…..i hope that YOU all like a very submissive sissy cum slut who will suck all the cum from YOUR ass hole. Soo delicious!

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    • sissy donna says:

      i can’t help it but i really love to suck off big BLACK MEN and swallow all their cum and also suck all the cum from the Black Mens ass holes!…Some one please take me as their sissy cum slut slave!

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      • sissy donna says:

        Mistress,i love to suck off all Big Black Cocks and always swallow their sissy cum and tell them that i want to belong to their become one of their sissy cum slut slaves!…..Please whip me and use me any way YOU wish and fill up my sissy mouth and swallow all of it!

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  36. Eva Goode says:

    When you read or hear the truth, it’s immediately obvious even though it takes a genius to reveal it. This article is that genius! I think sex and gender phobias are really rooted in gay panic and this deftly debunks that and should be shared all across the world. Thank you! I’m even more eager to start my training now because if this is the intelligence behind it, I am in excellent hands!

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  37. ViolettaSissy says:

    Thank you for an excellent article!
    Am I ready to suck cock!?
    I think thanks to your wonderful job of raising a sissy and taking your year of course… I will definitely be ready to suck cocks and love it! It is very important for me to discover and develop all the feminine sides in myself!
    Thank you in advance for your work!🙏

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  38. Jessica Ann Flowers says:

    I have found this to be very helpful indeed. It just confirms for me that which I have actually sensed in myself for a long time now. I’ve just recently discovered what it is to be a sissy. For the fist time in my life I have discovered something in the area of sexuality and gender identity that actually feels like me. Being a sissy just feels right to me. It feels like home. I’ve always known that I’m not gay. Oh, I’ve most definitely questioned my sexuality. There has always been something about the sight of a hard cock that has turned me on. But I have never really been sexualy attracted to men themselves. But having said that I’ve always found that the thought of sucking a guy off, of taking part in a blow bang really turns me. And Ive always wanted to know what it would feel like to have a guy bend me over and fuck my brains out. I’ve always known that I’m not transgendered. Or at the very least not a transsexual. I’ve always known that I’m a crossdresser. But I’ve also always known that I was more than that. I’ve always known that a part of me wanted to be a woman. But I’ve never felt like I am a woman trapped in a man’s body. I’ve always been attracted to women. But deep down I think that I’ve always been more attracted to the beauty, the sexiness of women, then to women as sexual conquests. There is a part of me that actually longs to be seen as a woman, even to live my life as a woman. But I know that I can never actually be a woman. I don’t really think that I want to be a woman. I think that what it is that I really want is to be feminine, to be girly. I’ve never really fit in as a man. I guess that you can say that as a man I feel out of place. But the idea of being a sissy makes me feel alive, makes me feel like I have a place in the world that just fits who I truly am. I find that when I think of myself as a sissy I feel like I actually belong, like I actually fit in for the first time in my life. I hope that that has answered your question.

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  39. JESSICA ANN FLOWERS says:

    There used to be a time in my life when I actually thought that I could never get into being sexualy intimate with a transsexual woman. It’s not that I’m homophobic. I actually like transgendered woman. To me they are woman. Hell, I’ve envied them for their natural femininity. The reason why I thought that I could never be sexualy intimate with such women had more to do with the sense of confusion that I thought it would cause inside of me than anything else. But something inside of me changed about six months ago when I saw this gorgeous black woman with a huge cock on Tick Tok or Instagram. (Don’t rightly remember which.) When I saw her, I thought that she was the most beautiful, sexy creature I had ever seen in my life. She looked so beautiful and feminine. Her deep black skin glistened in a way that was incredibly arousing. She was not only the most beautiful and series woman that I had even seen, her huge lost swollen cock was so magnificent to behold it made my mouth water. As I sat there looking at her pictures, I found myself longing, no, aching to wrap my lips around the thick shaft of her cock and to suck her off until I could feel her cup coating the back of my throat. That would be exquisite. I know from past experience that I love how it feels to have the back of my throat splattered with a hot, juicy load of cum. I also know that I love the way that I can feel the cum coating the back of my throat for hours after I’ve drained it from a guy’s balls. Does that make me gay. No, it just makes me a cock loving sissy. I can live with that.

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  40. Meyers says:

    When we had regular sex, I enjoyed being inside my girlfriend, but I often fantasize about sucking cock. Like another person who commented here, my girlfriend and I haven’t had sex in 3 yrs and now we’re more like roommates. I get rock hard looking at pictures of cocks, frequently masturbating to them, but I don’t believe I’m gay. I’m not attracted to men at all, just their cocks. I would love to find a disease-free man to hook up with regularly, either that or I wouldn’t mind being cucked. Having a man inside my mouth, then inside my girlfriend only to coat my face with his ejaculate or on my girlfriend to clean up would be wild! The closest I’ve ever come to this fantasy is when I would pull out to cum and do it in my girlfriend’s hands, then she would rub it on my face. That always felt so good I would cum again. Delightful.

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