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Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?
Let’s imagine for a moment. You are a masculine guy. You’re attracted to women, you have male friends, everything is normal from the outside. But then, there’s that time of day when you’re on your own. You’re horny. You log on to a porn site. And certain fantasies begin to take hold.
1. You watch the girl on the screen sucking that huge, heavy cock, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like in your mouth.
2. Your own cock twitches at the thought. Maybe you go looking for some captions, or a video – something that really explores cock sucking as a fetish.
3. Soon enough, you’re shooting your load. Shooting your load at the thought of being made to suck cock.
4. You might look at the cum dripping down your shaft and wonder what it would taste like…
5. Then, finally, you come to your senses, and the realisation hits you. You just got turned on, thinking about sucking cock. And you’re left asking yourself…
… Am I Gay?
The simple answer is no, of course. If you even have to ask, that should be enough to show you that you’re not secretly gay deep down. After all, you’re still turned on by girls, aren’t you? The real question is this:
Are you bisexual, or is this just a fetish?
That’s right – it’s actually very common for straight men to fantasies of sucking cock. It’s a very normal fetish for straight guys to have, and it does not make you gay.
You can think of it like just another fetish. It doesn’t make you a freak if you’re turned on by feet, or turned on by the idea of being dominated. Thinking about cock is no different, sweetie. Just thinking about cock doesn’t change anything about who you are. It doesn’t change your identity, or your orientation. It’s just a thought, and it’s just a fetish.
But if you’re not gay, how did you end up being so turned on by the idea of sucking cock? To answer that, we’ll need to dive into a little philosophy, psychology, and sociology, and by the end of it I hope you will have learned something about your sexuality, your fetishes, and maybe even your gender identity.
Strap yourself in, sissybitch.
Part One: Cock-sucking is your Fetish
You’ve always thought of yourself as a straight boy, right? Well, I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong. So let’s make it clear:
- Spending hours thinking about cock doesn’t mean you want to look at cock.
- Wanting to look at a rock hard cock doesn’t mean you want to touch a cock.
- Wanting to touch a hot, throbbing cock doesn’t mean you want to suck a cock.
- Wanting to suck a thick cock, and feel it push open your mouth, doesn’t mean you want to get fucked by a cock.
- And wanting to get bent over, your panties ripped off, and to take that powerful cock deep inside your sissy-cunt… Still Doesn’t Make You Gay.
I can prove it to you.
Do you think about going on romantic dates with men? Do you think about kissing men? If one of your guy-friends made a move on you, would you feel happy, or uncomfortable? You see, you can have a super-strong craving for cock inside you, but it doesn’t mean you’re attracted to guys. Just Cock.
Not men. Just Cock. Attraction to cock isn’t a sexual orientation – it’s a fetish. So let’s talk about kinks and fetishes.
A “kink” is anything you enjoy doing that other people might think is taboo. And a “fetish” is just anything specific that makes you aroused, other than thoughts of having sex. You know, you could think of people who like to look at a women’s breasts as having a ‘breast fetish’ – there are cultures in the world where it’s perfectly normal for women to wear nothing to cover their breasts, and it doesn’t send the men into a sexual craze. But when breasts are covered up, when a society makes it taboo and sexual to look at a woman’s breasts, it plants a seed in your brain. Sexual curiosity starts to grow.
The world says that you’re not allowed to be gay. You’re not supposed to even think about hard, cum-dripping cock. You’re not allowed to be feminine. You’re not allowed to dress like a slut. You’re not allowed to be a sissy. But the more the world tells you that you’re not allowed something, the more you want it. It’s inevitable, really. The stronger the taboo, the stronger the fetish.
Part Two: You Are Normal.
You might think that the world is divided into Straight, Gay, and a handful of bisexual outliers. If that was true it would mean that if you even had the slightest thought about sucking cock, then you’re likely a complete, raging homosexual.
What a silly idea.
Even most bisexual men are more attracted to women than they are to men. Sexuality is a spectrum, and we’ve known this for a long time. This is a diagram first published in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 report “Sexuality in the human male”:
Kinsey came up with a simple 7-point scale, intending to show that sexuality is fluid – and more importantly, that it can change. First, I want to show you responses from a 2015 survey of people from the UK:
The important point here is that the number of bisexual people massively outweighs the number of people who identify as exclusively gay. And less than *half* of people aged 18-24 identify as exclusively straight these days, as our society has changed to be more accepting of different sexualities.
But those men who are able to admit that they are turned on by the idea of cock – how many of them would actually be interested in having a relationship with another man? Most of them probably still identify as straight, because they know that having some fantasies of sucking cock doesn’t make you gay.
Part Three: Who’s afraid of being a sissy?
Dressing up like a girl doesn’t make you a girl, just like sucking cock doesn’t make you gay. Feeling romantically attracted to men and only men is what makes a person gay. Likewise, feeling like you are truly a girl, identifying as a girl is what would make you a girl. Otherwise, you’re just a sissy.
Being a sissy doesn’t have to be about questioning your gender identity. But it does have to be about questioning certain stereotypes. Why shouldn’t you wear makeup? Why shouldn’t you wear dresses? Why shouldn’t you act like a slut? Who’s decided all of these restrictions that “real men” have to obey?
You know what – deciding to put on a pair of lace panties was one of the bravest things you’ve ever done. – Deciding to buy yourself a dildo and practice sucking it.
– Deciding to choose a feminine name for yourself.
You’ve deliberately crossed a boundary that most men would be terrified to cross.
You might be worried about your sissy-interests making you ‘weak’ or ‘less of a real man’, or a ‘beta’ – but who is braver?
A man who refuses to ever wear ‘girly’ panties?
Or a man who does so openly?
A man afraid to be seen as feminine?
Or a man who calls himself a sissy-bitch?
DIVE DEEPER
You’ve had the courage to explore things that ‘Alpha’ men would wimp out of if given the opportunity. You’ve opened the door to experiences that ‘alpha’ Men would shy away from, no matter how good they feel. Can you imagine a Super-Straight, Alpha man fingering his prostate until he orgasms? Do you think he’d be brave enough to take that step? Or would he be too caught up in the idea that “I can’t do that, that would make me gay”?
You know better than that.
And because you know better, you can go even further.
You can suck every cock you find on Grindr, and it won’t make you gay.
You can meet men who know exactly how to pound your prostate and make your sissy-clit squirt, and it won’t make you gay. You can have guy after guy fuck and use you. You can have a male Master or Daddy own you. You can be a sissy bitch for life.
It Doesn’t Make You Gay.
So, what do you think, sweetie? Has this helped reassure you? Are you ready to go out there and start sucking cock like a good girl? Leave a comment below to let us know.
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Been eating my own cum for the estrogen in it, yes I’ll suck cock given the opportunity.
Amazing article. It’s fun to know I’m not alone in this fantasies. Personally I love dressing up and pretending to get fucked and sucking cock all day. I haven’t had the courage to go and find a real cock, but when I’m able I will devour and serve that cock until I’ve drained it of all its cum
Reading this made me so happy! I absolutely love cock and think about it all the time. I finally acted on it and not only got off by slurping on his cock, but I also was fucked to orgasm. Oh my – it was heaven!!! I since have been able to fuck myself with a dildo and cum without touching myself. (Now that was hot!!!). .. and yet… I love women ! I’m not gay but I LOVE cock soooo much !
I had been interested in the male penis since I was about 10 but never did anything other than put on my moms panties and wear her lipstick when no one was home. Over the years I progressed and eventually got married to a woman but still had a cock fantasy. Fast forward 30 yrs and I had full bag of makeup and sexy clothes, even wig and heels. I’ve grown so very fond of taking semen in both places and love it and have wondered if I am gay, but reading your article I dont think I am, I just love being a girl and getting what women love to get and even more.
I just need to find my first dick to suck 🫤
I’m a crossdresser and have been for several years. Everyone who knows this believes I’m gay. I’m not. I’m a P. I. and very good at researching. In doing do, I’ve found out that 80 to 90 present of those who crossdress are straight. I congratulate you on what you’ve written here. In the last couple years, I’ve been fascinating about cocks. I want to learn more about this and other Sissy stuff.
This was very helpful. I have had sexual experiences with both sexes but can only romantically get involved with woman or feminine tops. Can’t lie, sucking is fun but I also prefer condom if doing so, not a huge cum fan. Overall, I feel straight and just like playing the woman’s role which makes me a sissy. I’m a cocksucking sissy lesbian.
I became a sissy that loves to suck cock more later in life now its all I want to enjoy and men that feed me their cum is what I love so much I swallow any cock I suck now I beg men for there cum I suck married men as I feel there safe to swallow I have gave more that 200 blow jobs to men in the last 10 yrs I am a KY sissy gurl
Very good read, can’t wait to dive into training
cocks are beautiful organs maybe the only beautiful in men thats why i desire to become a sissy so i can suck cock because i dont find attractive a masculine face sucking on a cock. i want to look pretty and be sluty and wear all those beautiful girl clothes but i need the appropiate body for that. i hope ill manage to transform it soon when ill have the financial means to do that.
This is a great article, it’s put things in a very clear way and I feel a lot more comfortable with my sexuality
I want to be a sissy bitch. I want ti have sex and be controlled by many men. If that makes me gay who cares. Then I a n guy. U plan to such cock and have as many as I can buried deep in my ass. Sometimes at the same time. I don’t care if it makes me gay. It’s just a word. I plan on being a total cock craving slut. So bring on the cock.
You are reading my mind I love you
All of this, “being a sissy,” is a very new experience for me. I can’t say that I’ve never been turned on by watching a girl suck on a cock, because I have. Imagination does run rampant when watching porn, and you find yourself curious about what the girl feels like. How it would feel being in her position, sucking and riding that cock. I have never been with another man (unless you count my toys). I’ve been curious as to how it would feel to be able to dress up, be pretty or even sexy, for a guy, and let him do the things to me that I watch in the videos. Let him be the pizza delivery guy and I be the sexy girl that gets to have the “extra sausage.” Hopefully that doesn’t make me gay…I’m just REALLY curious (if anything).
I am a submissive sissy and love to suck a man’s cock and drink his cum. I also like to be fucked bare.
I love dressing up in panties and all types of feminine lingerie and then thinking of sucking cock. It doesn’t matter to me if I’m gag or not I just love my feminine side. Reading your article just made me want cock more so I got dressed up and went to a bar where I gave out bjs. It was the start of something I love now and so glad I started. Am I gay it doesn’t matter I’m happy with myself and that’s all that matters.
Manly macho part time crossdresser here. I dress and fantasize of sucking cock. After reading this article I posted an ad and have an early morning meet up with a man commuting to work. He sent me a dick pic and I can’t wait. I hope I don’t chicken out again. I hope tomorrow I’ll finally be the sissy cock sucker of my dress up masterbation fantasies! Wish me luck.
Wow. Ido want to try sucking a real cock!!!
I used to think I was straight and only had a cock fetish. I didn’t want to date men. I wasn’t big into kissing a guy’s hairy mouth. I did like sucking cock though. I also had a stronger desire to be fucked by a guy if I was naked with another guy and we were sucking each other’s dicks than my desire to fuck him was. After a few sexual encounters with men, I began to enjoy kissing. I still haven’t spent the night with a man after being fucked by one, but with the right guy I might enjoy it. Having a cock to play with first thing in the morning couldn’t be a bad thing after all. Then I started to have sex with men more often than with women. I essentially quit having sex with women when I was unable to get hard on my last attempt at fucking a girl. Now I can hardly even cum by jacking off, unless I have something in my “pussy” and I never watch straight porn. More that I only have sex with men, I almost never top, even though my dick gets really hard when I suck a guy off. I’m usually wanting him to finger me while we make out, then go down on him to get him hard and horny, and hopefully get fucked by a man who knows how to fuck properly. I’ve found that many guys just aren’t that good at fucking. I understand why women can be less than enthusiastic about sex with her normal guy. I still consider myself bisexual, because I’ll fool around with a girl if the guy I’m having sex with has a girlfriend into threesomes. I might be gay, if getting fucked by a sexy man makes me cum quickly and having sex with girls doesn’t even cause an erection, means I’m gay. Then I’m happy to be gay. Sex with men is way less stressful than sex with women. I know my man is enjoying himself when fucking me, yet I always wonder if the girl I’m attempting to have sex with thinks I’m gay because I can’t get an erection unless she is using a strap on. I’m glad I’ve learned the is no need for that stress, just find a horny man and you will both be happy!
well I am straight I view myself as a girl and yes I just want to become more comfortable in sexy dresses and high heels and I want.to be caressed by his probing hand until he ravages my holes like the slut.i knowmi.am
I always think about the cock only. Like it exists without being attached to a man.
I was like this for years, researching the net, even went to psychiatrist. After I. Lost a gf. Over it and Etc hee hee.. this is an assuring blog. Thanks for explaining to us “fetish” “sissies” “straight” guys were not messed up.
I’m gonna go suck a cock next chance I get- 🙂
This sissy bitch is shy and scared to go out to a public place all dressed up as a slut, but would love to be forced/blackmailed into going out and allowing others male and female to use it for their enjoyment and entertainment, it wants to take its first BBC and have it viedo taped to post on line and to watch over and over again, and allow other men to view as they use me for their pleasure. Thanks to this sight this sissy may just get the nerve it needs. Thank you
i love dressing sluty.It really turns me on when a man looks at me and gets hard.i have always been attracted to women. i dont think i would enjoy dressing up and wanting to be one if i wasn’t. i have recently started to be attracted to men lately. surprisingly to my self i am happy about this. even as attracted to women as i was and still am.i always preferred sex with men.a cock in me feels 100 times better then my little clitty in a hole.
Yesss enjoyed reading every bit of itt
Sissy sisterrss lets suck hehehe😻🙈🐰
Im so willing to suck and swallow cock and work on swallowing allways i want suck allways
i do want that first experience to happen more and more..it does fill my mind often
Thank you for this article. Actually I’m ready to go out there and socking cocks as a girl, sissy girl!!!
Great article thank you! I’m definitely attracted to cock, probably addicted. But i’ve never thought of myself as gay.. I’m just a sissy 🙂
Loved it
Loved it. Well said
I have never sucked a real cock, but I do have a life-like dildo cock. I have learned to deep throat it without gagging (takes practice every day) and have had it slide in and out of my boipussy while at least wearing panties, and sometimes fully dressed enfemm. Do I consider myself gay? No, not at all. Would I ever take a real cock? The thought has crossed my mind more than once. All I do know is that I am attracted to women and evidently also to cock. So thinking about cock, as noted in the post, does not make you gay, it just opens your mind to the exploration of something new and exciting.
I like this article very much. What I said is very right. I am not gay, but I like sucking cock. I like being humiliated by men. I bought a lot of fake cock which is just a fetish. I like cock, let man enjoy me.
This made so much sense… That middle caption too… Yummy!
Thank you so much for this article.
I have never had the courage to take that step and have a penis in my mouth.
Sucking cock will help me to understand and empathise with women. I cannot be a feminist without experiencing this.
I have a duty, a responsibility, to all the strong women in my life, to take an erect cock into my mouth and learn what it is like to make a man cum
I sucked one cock. Surprizingly I took right to deepthroating after slower kisses . He came right down m agay throat within 5 minutes
Than took my phone nb.. kept calling but I didn’t go see him again. The cravings are stronger than ever
I’m a mtf transgender in transition ever since I started transitioning I think about other trans MTF and how I would like to have sex with one so I can feel more like a woman does is this normal?
I’ve always wanted to service men’s cock’s and help them unwind I’ve none that since childhood and started up back then until he was so big I couldn’t get it in either hole but I know that I love cocksucking and cream pies.
I Really enjoyed this article. I’ve Always known i wasn’t gay, but can’t stop fantasizing about sucking Cock and getting fucked like a sissy slut. I have experienced both and thoroughly enjoyed the experiences but it always left me with the uneasy thoughts that i might be gay. I wear panties at work all the time and they feel So amazing that i can’t stop wearing them. I look forward to reading more of your articles and hopefully start to expand on my new sissy fetishes
I can’t wait to suck my first cock and show my Mistress how good of a slut I can be for her!