Sucking Cock - Does it make you gay?
20
Apr
Sissy Mind & Psychology

Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?

Let’s imagine for a moment. You are a masculine guy. You’re attracted to women, you have male friends, everything is normal from the outside. But then, there’s that time of day when you’re on your own. You’re horny. You log on to a porn site. And certain fantasies begin to take hold.

1. You watch the girl on the screen sucking that huge, heavy cock, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like in your mouth.

2. Your own cock twitches at the thought. Maybe you go looking for some captions, or a video – something that really explores cock sucking as a fetish.

3. Soon enough, you’re shooting your load. Shooting your load at the thought of being made to suck cock.

4. You might look at the cum dripping down your shaft and wonder what it would taste like…

5. Then, finally, you come to your senses, and the realisation hits you. You just got turned on, thinking about sucking cock. And you’re left asking yourself…

… Am I Gay?

The simple answer is no, of course. If you even have to ask, that should be enough to show you that you’re not secretly gay deep down. After all, you’re still turned on by girls, aren’t you? The real question is this:

Are you bisexual, or is this just a fetish?

That’s right – it’s actually very common for straight men to fantasies of sucking cock. It’s a very normal fetish for straight guys to have, and it does not make you gay.

You can think of it like just another fetish. It doesn’t make you a freak if you’re turned on by feet, or turned on by the idea of being dominated. Thinking about cock is no different, sweetie. Just thinking about cock doesn’t change anything about who you are. It doesn’t change your identity, or your orientation. It’s just a thought, and it’s just a fetish.

But if you’re not gay, how did you end up being so turned on by the idea of sucking cock? To answer that, we’ll need to dive into a little philosophy, psychology, and sociology, and by the end of it I hope you will have learned something about your sexuality, your fetishes, and maybe even your gender identity.

Strap yourself in, sissybitch.

Part One: Cock-sucking is your Fetish

You’ve always thought of yourself as a straight boy, right? Well, I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong. So let’s make it clear:

  • Spending hours thinking about cock doesn’t mean you want to look at cock.
  • Wanting to look at a rock hard cock doesn’t mean you want to touch a cock.
  • Wanting to touch a hot, throbbing cock doesn’t mean you want to suck a cock.
  • Wanting to suck a thick cock, and feel it push open your mouth, doesn’t mean you want to get fucked by a cock.
  • And wanting to get bent over, your panties ripped off, and to take that powerful cock deep inside your sissy-cunt… Still Doesn’t Make You Gay.

I can prove it to you.

Do you think about going on romantic dates with men? Do you think about kissing men? If one of your guy-friends made a move on you, would you feel happy, or uncomfortable? You see, you can have a super-strong craving for cock inside you, but it doesn’t mean you’re attracted to guys. Just Cock. 

Not men. Just Cock. Attraction to cock isn’t a sexual orientation – it’s a fetish. So let’s talk about kinks and fetishes.

A “kink” is anything you enjoy doing that other people might think is taboo. And a “fetish” is just anything specific that makes you aroused, other than thoughts of having sex. You know, you could think of people who like to look at a women’s breasts as having a ‘breast fetish’ – there are cultures in the world where it’s perfectly normal for women to wear nothing to cover their breasts, and it doesn’t send the men into a sexual craze. But when breasts are covered up, when a society makes it taboo and sexual to look at a woman’s breasts, it plants a seed in your brain. Sexual curiosity starts to grow.

The world says that you’re not allowed to be gay. You’re not supposed to even think about hard, cum-dripping cock. You’re not allowed to be feminine. You’re not allowed to dress like a slut. You’re not allowed to be a sissy. But the more the world tells you that you’re not allowed something, the more you want it. It’s inevitable, really. The stronger the taboo, the stronger the fetish.

Part Two: You Are Normal.

You might think that the world is divided into Straight, Gay, and a handful of bisexual outliers. If that was true it would mean that if you even had the slightest thought about sucking cock, then you’re likely a complete, raging homosexual.

What a silly idea.

Even most bisexual men are more attracted to women than they are to men. Sexuality is a spectrum, and we’ve known this for a long time. This is a diagram first published in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 report “Sexuality in the human male”:

“The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats.… The living world is a continuum.” – Alfred Kinsey. 

Kinsey came up with a simple 7-point scale, intending to show that sexuality is fluid – and more importantly, that it can change. First, I want to show you responses from a 2015 survey of people from the UK:

The important point here is that the number of bisexual people massively outweighs the number of people who identify as exclusively gay. And less than *half* of people aged 18-24 identify as exclusively straight these days, as our society has changed to be more accepting of different sexualities.

But those men who are able to admit that they are turned on by the idea of cock – how many of them would actually be interested in having a relationship with another man? Most of them probably still identify as straight, because they know that having some fantasies of sucking cock doesn’t make you gay.

Part Three: Who’s afraid of being a sissy?

Dressing up like a girl doesn’t make you a girl, just like sucking cock doesn’t make you gay. Feeling romantically attracted to men and only men is what makes a person gay. Likewise, feeling like you are truly a girl, identifying as a girl is what would make you a girl. Otherwise, you’re just a sissy.

Being a sissy doesn’t have to be about questioning your gender identity. But it does have to be about questioning certain stereotypes. Why shouldn’t you wear makeup? Why shouldn’t you wear dresses? Why shouldn’t you act like a slut? Who’s decided all of these restrictions that “real men” have to obey?

You know what – deciding to put on a pair of lace panties was one of the bravest things you’ve ever done. – Deciding to buy yourself a dildo and practice sucking it.
– Deciding to choose a feminine name for yourself.
You’ve deliberately crossed a boundary that most men would be terrified to cross. 

You might be worried about your sissy-interests making you ‘weak’ or ‘less of a real man’, or a ‘beta’ – but who is braver?

A man who refuses to ever wear ‘girly’ panties?
Or a man who does so openly? 

A man afraid to be seen as feminine?
Or a man who calls himself a sissy-bitch?

DIVE DEEPER

You’ve had the courage to explore things that ‘Alpha’ men would wimp out of if given the opportunity. You’ve opened the door to experiences that ‘alpha’ Men would shy away from, no matter how good they feel. Can you imagine a Super-Straight, Alpha man fingering his prostate until he orgasms? Do you think he’d be brave enough to take that step? Or would he be too caught up in the idea that “I can’t do that, that would make me gay”?

You know better than that. 

And because you know better, you can go even further. 

You can suck every cock you find on Grindr, and it won’t make you gay.

You can meet men who know exactly how to pound your prostate and make your sissy-clit squirt, and it won’t make you gay. You can have guy after guy fuck and use you. You can have a male Master or Daddy own you. You can be a sissy bitch for life. 

It Doesn’t Make You Gay.

So, what do you think, sweetie? Has this helped reassure you? Are you ready to go out there and start sucking cock like a good girl? Leave a comment below to let us know.

246 thoughts on “Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?”

  1. Emy Nova says:

    It’s always a pleasure to read new articles here, i hope there will be mush more in the future, thanks for everything you’re doing here.

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      • Sturdy part time sissy says:

        I’m bi but I’m not out to everyone yet. I wish I could be the designated girl for a few dedicated top men and they be my Daddys and I’ll be they’re bottom bitch. I’ll be the bottom or the girl and I’ll be in heaven taking a big boner in each hole and one in each hand having thy guys just surround me and I’ll open my mouth to accept my loads of jizz. Nectar from the Gods and I want to be covered in cum on the inside And the outside. Who will help me?

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    • Tracy Sheetz says:

      Very interesting, so far I just fantasize about sucking and fucking a cock, I watch gay porn and sissy hypno, and sniff poppers, I don’t own panties but have a dildo and several plugs. I’ve recently discovered I like having a plug in my ass as I masturbate to gay or sissy porn. I have also recently fantasized about kissing a guy as I stroke his cock and he touches and strokes mine. I love frottage videos and become verycaroused as I watch the cocks rub and cum all over each other’s cocks. Yes I have a sissy name, but I haven’t technically dine any CD or anything sexual as a girl. Just Fantasy! Does this mean I’m just a normal heterosexual male with only a fetish fit gay or sissy sex? Am I gay? Or perhaps as this article suggests, I’m just a normal guy with homosexual fantasies.

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        • Sturdy part time sissy says:

          I’m the girl so that isn’t gay. I love to eat hot pussy and I’m a girl for a huge boner. Give me a firing squad to face and sirs shoot me all over on video. I have to think about sucking a huge cock to get off anyways

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          • Alyssa Paige Cummings says:

            I too am a closet case of Sissy, only due to everyone else not being able to accept it, I love it, but can’t ever come out due to it screwing up so much more in life than it would solve for me. Sadly have to live in secret with only those that get to share this part of me, but its how the world is still… no way to fix the world overnight, only being comfortable with your own situation. I’m happy to say i’m pretty comfortable with mine, but i also don’t get the attention sexually or erotically i desire, even from my wife, wish the world could change for the better.

      • MikiD says:

        In the early 80s I was a VERY passible CD fuck slut. I sucked some cock but only a few to completion. I was a cuckold cream pie eater to several couples.
        Now after 30 years of marriage to a woman I long for the old days and want to suck cock, swallow cum and get fucked. Wife knows I wear panties but nothing else and doesn’t want to see them. I hide my plugs and one dildo. Only my acupuncturist sees my panties.

        Love to be fucked

        Miki Damron

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        • Jhertz says:

          in the early 80s I dated a woman that dressed me as a woman and set up dates for me with older men.they loved treating me like a whore.i did everything they wanted and loved every minute

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        • Mike says:

          I experienced the same except I had sucked cock at 13 years old and liked it got married then divorced and now at 55 at back at it. So I know I’ve probably always been gay because I’m attracted to only men now

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      • Mia-candi says:

        I am only really attracted to other girls with cocks and woman. It’s just impossible to find other girls to meet. Would love to hear from another girl from here or a Mistress. Thank you.

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      • Matt says:

        Wow that turned me on. I couldn’t help pulling my cock out. And stroking it am I gay never sucked on a cock but fantasies about it every day. Can someone in Seattle help me get started

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      • Anne says:

        Yes I especially love when a lady grabs my head and forces me to Deep throat raging cock to completion If it makes her cumnit makes my Clifty hard too

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    • Brooke69 says:

      I agree, the article was great and exactly how I feel. I am not into kissing but want to be fucked and suck cock.

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      • Rita Rox says:

        This is exactly how I feel and what I have thought about for years and I turned that thought over and over in my mind. “Am I gay? I can’t be.” I mean I love cock so much. I never thought I was or could be a sissy bitch, but that’s the only thing that makes sense. I mean I act the way a sissy bitch would when I’m around cock. I fantasize about being the girl when I watch porn. Of course I’m a sissy bitch inside. Now I just have to follow through with letting that sissy bitch become what she was meant to be. Thank you so much!

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    • Rocquelle/ Roc says:

      Great article, sucking cock doesn’t mean you’re gay. I’m married and love my wife, but we are more like roommates now. I’m a total sissy and I love dressing as a gurl. I love all the clothes. They just make me feel so happy. Cock is always on my mind and I wouldn’t change that for anything.

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  2. Cole says:

    I’ve started edging to the point where I can’t cum. I’ve been licking up the cum and can’t get anymore. It’s hard to stop edging and I can’t afford a cage to prevent me. What should I do?

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    • Sara says:

      Thanks for the article. It really confirms what I feel already. I am only attracted to females, but definitely fantasize about cocks, both wanting to suck them as well as wanting them to fuck and stretch my little hole, and fill me with hot cum. I don’t wear any chastity, but wear girly clothes and feel femme all the time. I own lots of toys, from the small 6” smooth penis to the huge veiny 15” cock. I practice sucking and fucking them all, but in the end I really only want a female or full TS to have me.

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  5. sqrl says:

    this is so true
    i have been sucking cock for years
    i am not gay i do not prefer men over women women are still great
    i prefer cock over pussy
    i am a cocksucker

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  7. Jessica koks says:

    I personally don’t care what other people think of me if loving a nice hard dick and being a sissy bitch is gay then I don’t want to be “straight”. I AM A SISSY BITCH AND I LOVE HAVING SEX WITH MEN

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  9. Phyllis says:

    Love cock.. Love mine love others. Love all cock big thick small.. Hard soft..cumming ..throbbing..anywhere I can put it is good too!

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  10. Michelle says:

    Thank you for this but I am still a scared little bitch. Yes I have desires but am so stuck in tradition I back away from any of my desires

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    • Sheshy says:

      Same here, after reading this I want yo touch a cock , lick it , suck it but in my case , I don’t know some one & I don’t have that much dare to find or go to such places where I can suck a. Cock.

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      • IsabellaMilli says:

        It’s a dream I would do anything. But me, I’m specially attracted to BBC. Love watching BBC brainwashing and inject my penis with amphetamine to hopefully make it permanently limp❤️

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    • Jen says:

      Hi I new to the sissy life style and I read the meaning of sissy and my sissy name is Jen thank you for the information love you all

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  13. Donny says:

    Mo, sucking cock does not make you gay. I lovr the feelinmg of a cock in my mouth and I am not gay.
    Two of the black men I sucked did take my ass by force but even that does not make me gay.
    I know my wife has a black lover and I understand that she needs that. And yes I have sucked him in front of her. I love eating my wifes cum filled pussy but I am not gay

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  14. jo-jo says:

    Wow, was thinking about this only this morning. How did you know? Fantastic article, extremely well written and set out. It now makes so much more sense to me. I long to suck cock, but that doesn’t make me gay! It made me feel so much better of my beautiful sissy self. Thank you so much sissy lover!

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  15. Michael/Michelle says:

    I had been divorced for about 12yrs and pretty much sexless. And I stumbled on to sissy hypno I didn’t believe in hypnosis so I watched and it was soooo exciting that I kept watching. Well it changed my thoughts to were I started wearing panties then nighties which triggered the desire to suck a cock and to feel it penetrate me. Well then I started dressing as a woman and wearing makeup. Then I took my first cock in my mouth and then anally and found it quit pleasurable to the point that I decided I was a transexual. So I decided to grow breasts and I am quit pleased with the changes but I am still a dad and granddad when around family but when I’m not I have a strong desire to become more female and dress in women’s sexy clothing. I am quit happy with myself snd want to be submissive to men as a half female for pleasure and half male for reality. Prayers to all

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  16. Dennis Turner says:

    Thank you for allowing me to read this article it was very interesting yes and a lot of it I would love to be a good sissy an Would love to read more articles like this sincerely yours Sissy Denise

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  17. Michelle says:

    Very excited for this training, and yes I’m one of the girls that gets excited at the thought of sucking cock

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  18. Maya says:

    I have been having those thoughts that sucking cock makes you gay. After reading this article and understanding that it is a fetish makes me feel better about my fantasy about sucking cock. I have many fetishes that I enjoy and never thought about cock sucking as a fetish. Wonderful read!

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  19. RemiSmith says:

    Very good article.
    Sucking my own cock would be perfect : I’m not gay if I dream of sucking my own cock and eating my own cum. If I had a twin we could made a 69 and it would be like self sucking and maybe a little more gay…

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  20. Martin says:

    All I enquired about was eating my own cum as this is a big turn on I don’t fantasy about sucked cock I just enjoy swallowing my own cum it’s a turn on for a cam girl I chat with and now she wants to watch me masterbating the swallowing cum for her

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  21. dani says:

    That just explained me. I am married and have a good marriage, but I still desire being a submissive bottom when I am with a man. I had a dominate friend growing up that used to make me touch and suck him. We never had anal, but it left that desire in me. I finally acted upon it and still do when the chance opportunity arises. I am masculine, but allow myself to submit to men and thoroughly enjoy that hidden part of my life. Thank you for the story.

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  22. Jasmine Kitty says:

    Thanks for this a great article.
    I tell my Sissy Sistets that it’s men who are weak and we are stronger and braver by doing what we do. A real man wouldn’t do what we do.

    I’ve had guys chat for ages and arrange a meet up but for them to bottle it because they get scared.

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  23. Monica says:

    Fabulous article that truly recognises the fact that we should feel proud to be whoever we want and be happy in ourselves for who we are. We also get to choose how we want to express it.

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  24. Tess Chance says:

    I have no attraction to men, and never will. I do love to dress up, wear makeup, and watch sissy porn. I love to suck cock and get fucked.
    I love having sex, it became to much drama and denial with women so I redirected my brain and started to become a sissy.
    It’s been 2 years, I’m still not attracted to men at all. Just there cocks!

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    • Sissycumtart says:

      Sexy sissy me loves cock but not men,I do have a master and a daddy. My master I obey always and my daddy demands deeds and performance .I wear panties .dirty sissycumtart loves thick hot sperm

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  25. Aurora says:

    I’m just saying thank you for helping me understand how wonderful it is to be a queer free from all that kind of denial and blame thinking.

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  26. Jackie Fulman says:

    Omg. Its such a relief reading this. I love going against the norms while understanding more of the feminine on this journey.

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  27. Sheshy says:

    Vey politely & nicely explained everything like heterosexual, bi & gay etc etc . Directly indirectly it encourages you to think feel & suck a cock , no worries. I really enjoyed . Thanks

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  29. jackie says:

    I’ve come from pure vanilla to a woman thats showing me the world, if she can swallow I can. Love watching her with women and she says it’s her turn. She’s shaved me from the neck down to be more appealing, Picking up a friend and her husband and maybe one more and she’s expecting a show.

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  30. Maddie Thomas says:

    I like it……I’m only interested in being a girly slut….being gay or straight doesn’t calculate into the equation….I’m being the girl.,…he’s the man I’m the girl….sound straight to me….I don’t troll for cock in man’s uniform?

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  31. Paulette says:

    I love sucking cock I think about it all the time…it’s what a real sissy is…me…it’s what I truly feel I’m here for..

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  32. Kimsey Abercrombie says:

    The urge to suck a cock just kept growing ?? inside of me.So I got up the nerves and got a date And While on my date I gave him the best blow job in the world.And I have been hooked ever since Do knock it till you have tried it I am now a sissy/trans who is adding to cock

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  35. Nat says:

    Very interesting, however it just seems that “alpha” men don’t feel the need to go out of their boundaries if they are getting all the women they want. So I feel that if one isnt an alpha then other options are sought

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  36. Alisia says:

    That mad me feel so inspired and happy reading that I’d never looked at anything like that before and honestly it makes so much sense I’m proud to be a sissy

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  37. Martha says:

    I fantasize about being dominated and humiliated by a group of men and women for their pleasure! It happens at a party and I go to the bathroom were I notice that the bedroom door is cracked I go into the bedroom and open a dresser drawer and there are at least a hundred pair of panties. I grab a couple pairs and return to bathroom where I remove my clothes and put on a pair of really lacy red panties. To make long shorter I did not notice the camera and when I return to the party two women come sit down on either side me. One of the women reach down a places her hand my thigh and says you need to follow them into the other room right now! I do as they say, once in the other room two men grab me by each arm and drag me to the center of the room. I try to pull away, then all the sudden I someone grabs me by hair pulling my head back, so I’m now looking a women right in her eyes. She tells the to tie my hands above my head to the hooks in the ceiling. The men tie my hands and now I’m standing in the middle of the room with all the party goers standing around me! A woman walks up to me and ask me if I’m a sissy? I open my mouth to answer her, but a huge dildo ball gag is rammed into my mouth. Several women start cutting my clothes off of me until, I’m wearing only her red lacy panties! All the party goers are laughing and pointing at me now! A man sits up a camera, turns it on and I see that I’m now on the big tv screen being recorded. The woman said that seeing that I like wearing panties that they were going to turn me into a little sissy slave slut and then I was going to be serve everybody at the party as a sissy slut for their pleasure. I begged them not to do this to me! That is when I heard the sound of the hair clippers. A woman started on my ankles and ran the clippers up my leg to my pubic area then straight up my chest to neck. I was shaved completely smooth from my neck to my ankles. Then came hair removal cream. I was dressed in panties, bra, stockings, garters, dress and high heels.

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  39. tinker says:

    I wish i could break thru this barrier. I love dressing sexy and all my toys. If I could find one cock and serve it daily it would be pure joy

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    • Keen and loving says:

      My thoughts exactly. It’s fun to share though and we can make great friends . Good luck with your progress. Enjoy!

      Reply

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