25 Goals for 2025: Be Slutty Be Feminine

Happy 2025 sweetie! As I write this we’re already a few days into the New Year and, if you listen very carefully, you can hear those tiny grains of sand slipping through the hourglass. The 365 days we get all too soon become 364, then 350, then 200 and before you know it, we’re wishing 2025 a fond farewell and looking forward to 2026.

So as well as following your studies at the Academy, I want to challenge you with a list of 25 goals to achieve in 2025. 

As I talk you through the goals, don’t worry about keeping track. I’ll share a link to the entire list at the end.

• Think pink!

Mindset is number one for any sissy. Work to keep your thoughts soft and pink and fluffy all year round. When you catch those silly boy thoughts poking their way in at the edges, pout and shoo them away. 

The more you do this, the easier it will get until it takes no effort at all and they will simply slide out of your brain as soon as they appear.

• Really get your butt to *POP*

Work that bootie girlie! Not only will a plump peach drive the boys wild, dominants love to spank a nice, juicy bottom, they’re so much more fun than playing with a bony behind.

Get stepping, get squatting, get lifting. 

• Hypno every day

Does sissy hypno work? Hmm, that sounds like something you should test and find out darling 😉. Experiment with audio only and video files, pick one subject to focus on (**hint** maybe sucking 🍆?) and try a lot of different artists. 

Maybe it won’t do anything? Maybe it will change your life? Either way, you will have a lot of fun finding out.

• Tame your gag reflex

Ah the bete noire of many sissies! When you stick something far enough down your throat, your body will naturally try and remove it. Now in the last sentence, replace “you” with “that strapping, muscle-bound hunk you saw naked in the showers at the gym”, “stick” with “forces” and “something” with “his eight inch long, rock hard penis”. See? This is exactly why you need to tame your gag reflex! 

I won’t have any of my students embarrass me in front of a real man, so as you work on it, make sure you’re picturing this scene happening.

• Shave your body every week
• …and begin to research longer term hair removal options

Self-explanatory no? You know you need to be smooth. It makes stockings and pantyhose feel so much better on your skin and you feel so much girlier when you shave and  even later, when you run your hands down your leg and it just feels so soft and silky. So you need to keep on top of it, no excuses.

…but, it’s a bit of a pain isn’t it? Shaving your whole body takes a long time! You can do it all at once but that means a super long shower, or if you’re lucky, a bath. Or you can break it down into stages every day but this way, it’s easier to miss a day and then fall out of the routine. So as well as shaving every week, start to look into alternatives.

The first step can be longer-term hair removal using something like wax, then semi-permanent options like laser treatment or permanent-permanent techniques like electrolysis.

The cost? That’s why you’re researching! Even if they all end up a little too pricey, you can always stick with shaving and add these to your budget to keep them handy for the future. 

• Attend Pride

You don’t need to dress or do anything in particular but I strongly encourage you to try and attend your local Pride. As a sissy, you will appear somewhere on the queer spectrum and having an event that is open and welcoming and accepting is a huge positive that you should embrace.

Plus, it’s a party! You need to attend more parties in 2025.

• Buy fresh flowers for your room and replace them when they wilt

This one is pretty easy isn’t it? It might not seem like much, but not everything has to be a brutal 30 minutes spent pounding yourself into oblivion while you watch a gangbang.

Making small, simple changes like this to your environment will have a large, positive effect and if you stick with the simpler tasks, it will make it a lot easier to stick with the more involved ones.

I’m not going to say you should use pansies…but at some point in the year you should definitely use pansies 😘 

• Two words: horse c*ck

Trust me hunnie, you might think you know about anal. You might even have had some experiences that you’re pretty proud of. But until you’ve really pushed yourself and opened up to a toy that is truly large, you’re always going to be missing something.

A horse c*ck shouldn’t be an everyday toy but you owe it to your sissy hole to give it the experience and let a real beast destroy you.

• Find the nearest glory hole to your house
• Make an account on Grindr 

These are just “so you know” and for information purposes only (I mean, if you know where your nearest glory hole is, it will make it super easy to avoid ever accidentally ending up at your nearest glory hole).

You’re not going to do anything with the information, you’re not going to get so curious and aroused and horny that you actually do anything, so just achieve these resolutions and you can tick them off the list and forget about them…honest 😇

But can you really trust what the Internet says? Maybe it’s best to just drive past and check that it really is a glory hole. And you should probably try Grindr just to make sure your account is set up correctly and so you know what you’re talking about with other sissies…but definitely stop here? 

• Supercharge your sissification with lots of premium Academy courses

Hopefully this goes with saying sweetie! If you want to really commit and supercharge your sissification we’re here to help you.

• Listen to your desire not your common-sense

Oh darling, what has your common-sense ever gotten you but a lot of “what if”s? Don’t you want to stop wondering?

If you desire something, then it’s something you want to do (I know, I know, this is so obvious and inarguable that it goes without saying, but you’d be surprised how many sissies will fight me on this point and swear blind that something turns them on because they’re not interested in it). 

You’re crying out to yourself to be true to who you are, so listen to yourself! She’s a good girl at heart so trust her and let her have what she wants.

• Daily spankings with a wooden spoon

Feel free to add “Hard” to the start of this resolution! Sissies should always be punished, sometimes they deserve it and sometimes they don’t. However, with that been said they ALWAYS deserve it.

First you will argue and tell yourself you don’t deserve it.

Then you will pout and tell yourself how unfair it is.

Then you will cry and beg for it to stop.

Then you will be quiet and accept things that are out of your control.

Until finally you will feel a rush and truly understand your place.

Ideally, someone else would do this to you but we have to live in the real world, so if you’re not lucky enough to have a spanker you will have to do it to yourself. If it feels like this isn’t having an effect, then you need to stop slacking and go a lot harder. Be absolutely merciless with yourself.

• Spritz perfume on your pillow before you go to bed

This will give you sweet, girly dreams.

• Your first and last thought every day should be about c*ck

This will give you even sweeter, girlier dreams 💋.

To make sure you don’t forget, set a reminder. Maybe add a note to your morning alarm? Or save some pictures (or GIFs) to your phone so you can open your eyes and reflexively stare at a guy ejaculating (all over you)?

A lot of events throughout your day are out of your control, but at the least, you can make sure you start and end your day correctly and your mind is in the right place.

• Focus on your appearance, always check how you look in a mirror
• Take A LOT of cute selfies

These two go hand in glove. You need to become more concerned about your appearance. Start by checking yourself in the mirror whenever you leave the house. If you’re out and about, use a shop window or your phone to make sure you don’t have something on your face or that your clothes are sitting properly, nothing is untucked, your hair isn’t out of place etc etc.

And speaking of, you have a phone and it has a camera, use it sweetheart! Maybe you feel especially cute one day, maybe it’s nice weather and you want to get a snap of yourself in a park or in front of a pretty dress on display in a shop window? Or perhaps you want to record how far down you can get on a dildo, or how your makeup practice is going, or how a different hairstyle looks on you.

Regardless of the reasons, take a lot of pictures of yourself and spend a couple of minutes everyday working through the ones you’ve taken and tagging them. #supercute #gorg #gloriousday #sissylover #cckskr #sissyproud. Then at the end of the year you have your stories right there, watch yourself get cuter and cuter as you get better at photographing yourself, work ever downward on that dildo and whatever else your imagination desires.

• Slut summer!

What does this mean? That’s for you to decide! It’s hot, everyone is showing skin and their arousal is rising. Use your Grindr account…no, don’t. You set it up not to use it didn’t you?

Before summertime, plan out what a Slut Summer will look like for you and then make it happen. After that, maybe you’ll be up for a Frisky Fall, an Anal Autumn or a Wide Open Winter?

• Be more openly flirty, especially with men.

This doesn’t need to be too overt. You can say “I’d love to see what you’re packing” with a very lascivious wink or you can just smile and pay someone a compliment (“I love how those jeans look on you (though a little tip, make sure they’re wearing jeans before you use this one)). 

If you’re nice and compliment people, they will associate you with feeling good. And then maybe they flirt back and before you know it, it leads somewhere. But you won’t know if you don’t start and take the first step.

• Get a pedicure every month.

Yes dear, even “boys” get pedicures nowadays. You can take a trip to the salon or nail bar and no one will think anything of it beyond you’re someone who takes care of themself and likes to be well groomed. And if you let one of the technicians talk you into a little polish, that will just be a secret between us girls, honest 🤐

• Seize any opportunity to say “Yes!”

You can tie this one into following your desire. Say “yes” more, say it often and say it enthusiastically. “Do you want to…” “YES!”. 

It almost doesn’t matter what someone is asking you, just say yes and see where it leads you.

• Spend more time in chastity than out.

I hope you’re locked right now sissy 👿. In my perfect world, every sissy would be in chastity 24/7 (and I would destroy hold all of the keys)  but I’m not completely heartless and I know that sometimes “life” can have other ideas, or you want to tuck so you can put on those super cute and super tight jeans, or you are working on limpining yourself.

However, you should be in chastity much more than you are and, at a minimum, you should definitely be spending more time locked than free. 

So track this and prove to yourself that you’re a good girl.

• Find a makeup style you love and practice applying it.

I know sweetie, makeup is a pain. It never looks quite right, you can’t seem to get the hang of it and you’re frustrated because girls always look really on point and super pretty when they’re glammed up and you just don’t.

Luckily, I know the secret behind this. It’s called practice! Girls aren’t born knowing how to apply makeup, they don’t magically acquire the skill when they begin puberty and it’s not easier for them to learn because of their feminine urges. They practice and practice until it becomes second nature.

So, find a look, buy some makeup and get working. Everyday practice would be amazing but every week will be enough for you to make incredible progress. 50 sessions in a year and you will be comfortable applying your own makeup? That sounds like a bargain!

Don’t know where to start? YouTube has endless tutorials. Concerned about cost? There are so many “dollar store buy lists” online. You want to prettify yourself don’t you? This is how.

• Don’t be afraid to ask for something you want.

Listening to your desire, saying yes and now this. These are the three steps to take to really put yourself out there. Once you’re comfortable with what you want and you’re not afraid to accept it when it’s offered, the next step is to be more active and ask for it.

I would love to tell you that every time you ask, you’ll get what you want but that’s not true for anyone (even Head Mistresses 😾), but if you don’t ask, you definitely won’t get and I would rather take a 5% chance at success than a 0% one, wouldn’t you?

Once you take this step, all sorts of doors will start to open for you and the magic will really begin.

That’s your list, 25 sissy goals for you to achieve in 2025. This is a firm but loving push for you to seize the year and make it your softest, pinkest, sissiest one yet. Challenge yourself and grow! Become the sissy other Academy students jealousy whisper about and stare at with envy.

I’ll be checking with you all in 12 months time and I expect a lot of progress and no excuses. The clock is ticking so you’d better get working.

Here’s to a horny, happy, healthy and horny 2025 🥂 

Download a printout of your resolutions here.

Your list:

1. Think pink! 
2. Really get my butt to *POP* 
3. Hypno every day 
4. Tame my gag reflex 
5. Shave my body every week
6. Research longer term hair removal options
7. Attend Pride 
8. Buy fresh flowers for my room and replace them when they wilt 
9. Two words: horse c*ck 
10. Find the nearest glory hole to my house
11. Make an account on Grindr 
12. Supercharge my sissification with lots of premium Academy courses 
13. Listen to my desire not my common-sense 
14. Daily spankings with a wooden spoon 
15. Spritz perfume on my pillow before I go to bed 
16. My first and last thought every day should be about c*ck 
17. Focus on my appearance, always check how I look in a mirror
18. Take A LOT of cute selfies
19. Slut summer! 
20. Be more openly flirty, especially with men. 
21. Get a pedicure every month. 
22. Seize any opportunity to say “Yes!” 
23. Spend more time in chastity than out. 
24. Find a makeup style I love and practice applying it. 
25. Don’t be afraid to ask for something I want.