Worried About Failing Locktober? Read This First!

This year, I have come across a lot of students who are scared of failing the Locktober Challenge and not knowing if the rules will allow them to live their lives normally. To make this clear for all of my sweet students, I will explain it in detail.

I want you to know: There is no such thing as failing Locktober! 😉 Mistress will only be disappointed if you quit trying.

Locktober is kind of like running a marathon. You are part of something big with a lot of people participating who cheer you on and create a great atmosphere, and you all have one goal to reach the finish line. It is not about getting the perfect score; it is about giving it your best shot this time around. Some run, some jog, some walk. But there is one unspoken rule – even if it gets hard, you still somehow get yourself over the finish line!

That “somehow getting yourself over the finish line” is what I am going to talk about. 

⭐️ We will start with BEGINNER MODE ⭐️

In beginner mode, you have more flexibility, and it is recommended for all people who:

are doing Locktober for the first time,

are new to chastity wearing

have a partner whom they do not want to include in this activity  

cannot be locked some days/hours

are not sure if they can handle it emotionally/mentally

You can still be part of Locktober if one of those is a concern of yours.

Let’s talk about how you could do that.

Locktober is not about wearing chastity as long as you can. Locktober is about surrendering to your submissive nature. Showing deep devotion to your Mistress, and locking your clitty so you, as a submissive, will put your masculine urges and need for pleasure aside. Chastity is just a tool that helps your devotion become your deepest source of pleasure. And oh, there will be sooo much pleasure you feel from that. Especially when Mistress will tease you about it!

So what did we just learn? We learned that chastity wearing is not what makes or breaks Locktober. It is important that you stay in the submissive mindset and use the right tools to enhance that.

💜 Unlocking for temporary activities (airport, gym, hygiene, medical appointments, etc.) is allowed – it is up to you if you unlock or not, but know that unlocking in these situations does not equal failing the challenge. Put it on after your activity and continue the challenge.

💜 If it all gets too overwhelming and you feel like you don’t want to wear it anymore, simply take it off, give yourself a little break. See how you feel in a few hours or tomorrow.

If you feel better the next day, then put your clitty cage on for just the daily task. It is up to you if you want to keep it on after the tasks. 

If you feel like you do not want to keep wearing chastity continuously, then just keep it on during the tasks. I don’t want you to miss out on the fun! However, doing the tasks without your clitty cage is not allowed!

💜 If you have a partner who you don’t want to involve with your Locktober Challenge, then just wear your cage as much as you can, unlock at night if you feel like it is needed, and do your daily tasks while wearing the cage in a private room. The most important part here to note is that the minimum you could do is do your daily tasks while wearing a cage.

💜 If you are new to wearing chastity and cannot keep it on for too long, then start Locktober by just wearing your chastity for the daily tasks. After finishing the tasks, see how long you can keep it on. I want you to challenge yourself, but also try not to overwhelm yourself. Try gradually increasing your wear time.

⭐️ The TRADITIONAL and EXPERT MODES ⭐️ are for more advanced and committed students who enjoy staying in the submissive mindset and can handle wearing chastity for a longer period; they will most likely not unlock. 

If you are a student who has chosen one of the harder modes, then above mentioned “If it all gets too overwhelming” goes for you as well. In the Academy, we are not compromising on students’ well-being. If you need a break, then Mistress wants you to take a break ❤️‍🩹

Each year, the Academy puts so much effort into creating the Locktober experience for our students, and we truly want you to have a fun, sexy, positive, and unforgettably hot month with us!

We take the lead, and you can just surrender and enjoy! 😉

I will see you soon! 💋

Head Mistress Alyssa

4 Responses

  1. Yes, I signed up and asked my Mistress for permission, and she agreed. Since this is my second time and I’ve been wearing chastity often since last Locktober, I’m looking forward to it. This year, I bought a new chastity device that I’m wearing at the moment, and I’ve also set myself some additional tasks such as stockings, garter belts, panties, and maybe a bra and corset. Panties and maybe a bra and corset, but I won’t go to the extreme challenge because I don’t know what my mistress has planned for me during that time.

    Sissy Patricia

  2. Sadly this lil sissy missed the pre sale price. If there are any other offers for a sale price? i’m in!.
    this would be my first time doing a loctober event, have done many of your academy classes, love them all. My Girlfriend fully supports me, love.
    Thank you Mistress for any consideration to welcome this lil sub sissy into your world of control and teasing. Jess 🙂 Sorry for being tarty.

  3. Taking part last year Locktober changed my life. Porn was overshadowing my everything and I tried everything to quit, for years haha… I just want to express that thanks to Locktober I was able to get my control back. I cummed 3-4 times during Locktober, and I didn’t feel like failing the challenge at all.. It was my best, and this best has given back the control over my urges.. And now I love the sissy stuff even more, now it’s not addiction anymore, but a fun activity I know that doesn’t consume me. Thank you ACADEMY! You have taught this boy self control. Already have secured my spot for this year event too. Love you!

  4. I’m very sorry that I couldn’t attend such an important event for me, although I really wanted to. My wife doesn’t let me fully immerse myself in this world. 🙁 She demands that the girl be alone in the house and that it is she, not me. The point of jealousy and attention has been reached.

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