I remember the first time a guy asked me to give me a blowjob. Deep down I was far from ready for it, full of hesitation, trying to remember every tip I’d ever read about blowjobs from my older sister’s Cosmopolitan magazines. Of course, I took the chance and tried my best because the sissy slut inside me told me I had to please this man. Saying no to him would have felt worse than accepting the fact that I gave a mediocre blowjob. Many cocks and mouthfuls later I have picked up some valuable lessons and I’m not about to gatekeep from my fellow slutty sisters (especially since Mistress insisted I share 🤭). These little tricks have gotten me compliments that I’m sure most sissy girls dream of!
Also, how did I manage to forget – I am Lucy, Head Mistress Alyssa’s Assistant. I am 23 years old, just a girl (well, boy for now but if you look from far you can’t tell haha) from Sweden who proudly loves Viking cocks, pink lingerie, and long walks on the beach. Enough about me, I’m revealing too much already, so let’s get started with the pleasing tricks ✨
Wave that slut flag proudly!
When you think of the most romantic scenes in movies, you will see that things get really hot and steamy when someone openly shows confidence towards their partner. They don’t hesitate, they take what they want! Grabbing someone for a kiss, grabbing their thighs, pulling them on a kitchen counter for a steamy makeout sesh, and throwing them gently on the bed. Mmm, imagine if it were done to you…I know, right? It makes you feel wanted, and that feels just soo good! The guys I’ve been with love it when I show them how much I want to please them. The more eagerly you show them that they are needed, the more they will love your little performance. And of course, mouth sluts like us should know that (if it is just a one-night fun then) they are obviously not obligated to return the favor for us 😛🙈💕
Talk that talk, girl!
I know already how much you love to hear these words:
You will swallow it all like a good girl, yes?
Look at you, you are such a good little cocksucker!
Don’t even think about stopping!
Hearing these words is so rewarding and turns me on each time, but if you want to make your guy moan for you…Then take it out of your mouth for a second and tell him something so naughty that it even makes your own clitty leak. Here are some of my favorite magic words:
I can’t wait to taste your cum!
Make me your dirty little slut, please!
I could do this every day for you!
The reaction to these is something you just need to experience yourself. And I am sure you can come up with more magic words like these! 😉
The Art of Tease
It doesn’t happen often, but at times I have a bit of time to tease before he asks to open my mouth. When you are given the chance, take it! Kiss the thighs, kiss their balls, and worship the penis with your tongue – do all in a gentle and feminine manner. It might not seem much, but you are building it up for something greater. Don’t forget to moan a little bit; your lips will carry the vibrations, and he will feel it too!
It’s Called a Skill for a Reason…
No matter if I practice on real juicy cocks or in my bedroom on my favorite dildo, I still feel like there’s more to learn about pleasing. I guess that is just part of being a submissive – always wanting to know how to serve better, suck better, and be better for them, and for myself! Mistress recently gave me instructions to go through the premium course called Morning Sucking Routine. She gave me instructions every morning on how to suck, teased me, and gave the conditions for orgasming, and…it was a wild ride! I also took this as an opportunity to practice my deep throat skills and analyzed my performance for 7 days straight. On the 7th day, I felt so horny and ready to please that I decided to dress up and schedule a D appointment for the same evening, classic Lucy! 🙈 He even gave me a graduation gift that my dildo was not able to give! So, in conclusion: the more you practice, the more confident you feel ➔ the more confident you will feel, the more they will enjoy your sucking!
Mistress asked me to remind you of the key points:
Make him feel needed and please him with full confidence! They love to see you being eager! ✅
Don’t be quiet! Tell them naughty things that will turn both of you on! ✅
Give him a soft introduction to your mouth, tease, lick, and tease like every move is part of your master plan. ✅
Never get too cocky with your skills, practice, and be open to learning new things! ✅
I sincerely hope you found something new, sexy, and interesting in my tips. This is my first-ever blog post that I wrote, so don’t be too hard on me 🙈💕 If you have some tips that have worked for you, I would love to read them in the comments section! Whenever I get another chance to write for the Academy blog, you bet I will try to do an even better job! Just like I do with every chance I get to suck: always a little better than the last time!
See you soon, sweet sluts! 🌸
Lucy
25 Responses
These are fantastic tips the more passionate about sucking him the better for us both hehe
Thank you
Adding some vibration with moaning or humming is a new idea for me.
so hot. and I loved the 7 day MSR.
that was wonderful to read , I especially like stop sucking or licking and talk to him that’s great I’m going to do it more.
thanks Paulette
Thank you Lucy,
I am currently doing the 7 <day course and have already spoken to my friend to try out what I have learned, but before that I will have a discussion with my Mistress about what she has in mind.
This sound so amazing ,cant wait to try it out
Great tips. I will try this thank you so much
I want to please him with full confidence. Keeping him hard as he likes and make him cum in or out me in my face in my mouth and be proud to serve him as the little slutty sissy bitch I am. The tips are good tools to spice up pleasures and fantasies
You you so much, dear Lucy, for sharing your secrets in such a beautifully written post. You made me crave for cock even more. I’ll, keep your advice in mind next time I have the opportunity.
Hugs
Try a mint before you go down on him. He will love you for it.
Thanks for the hot tips. I especially like the comment about. “can’t wait to taste your cum”.
A genetic girl friend of mine once gave me a tip which I have yet to try and it involved having an ice cube in your mouth before sucking him.
i would so love to have a sissy friend that we can pratice all these great tips.
I tried to remember all you said, but may not have. The confidence/eager thing is important for me b/c I am still uneasy giving a BJ. I push thru that, but eager I have to work on. THANK YOU 🙂
Best ways to finish a blowjob are:
When he cums, Always keep your eyes open and be looking up into his eyes. Avoid closing your eyes or looking away from his eyes till he has finished cumming. Even then keep looking into eyes.
If he cums in your mouth, never swallow till he tells you too. Instead keep looking into his eyes, open your mouth and show him just how big of a load he made. Let him admire his hardwork at producing such a big load. Play with it, swish it around your mouth, let it flow out of your mouth, but scoop it back in with your fingers if it does. He will eventually tell you to swallow or maybe not. if he tells you to swallow you do so without a second thought and a smile.
Once you have swallowed you then immediately start thanking him for allowing you to worship his penis. Act as if he saved your life and that you are forever in his debt. Tell him how amazing his cum tasted and you have never had anything anywhere near as delicious as his sperm. Thank him seperately for cumming in your mouth as well. Really lay it on thick.
If he does not tell you to swallow and a minute or 2 has gone past, with your mouth still full of his cum try your best to thank him still. You will sound silly because you are trying to talk with a mouth full of cum and he will probably laugh at you but be proud, you just made him cum with your mouth! Never swallow till he gives you permission. Even if you have to text him once he is gone and ask his permission to do so.
If he cums on your face dont wipe it off, wear his cum with pride. even if he gets some in your eyes dont wipe it off. A little cum in the eyes has never permanently blinded anyone. Let his cum run down your face and onto your clothes. Smile and thank him for allowing you to worship his penis. Once again, act like he just saved your life and you are for ever in his debt.
Even after all that dont be in a hurry to stand up. Stay on your knees. Gently kiss, lick and suck his penis. Ask if its ok for you to keep sucking, as a blowjob is never over until he says it is.
Once it is over, offer to get him a drink and help clean him up, no man wants his groin and penis staying all sticky and moist from his sperm and a sissies slobber. He is still the center of attention. You can get a drink and clean yourself up later once he is gone or fallen asleep.
if you are sleeping together get yourself a drink and go to the bathroom if you need too. But dont clean yourself up just yet. It will be a insanely sexy sight for him to wake up the next morning and see you fast asleep still a complete mess from giving him a blowjob the night before.
Nice tips too! Thank you so much for sharing!
Kisses, Cindy-lou
Such lovely advice, I can’t wait to try out everything I’ve learned once I finish the MSR myself!
I’m so pleased that Head Mistress Alyssa made you post these tips and share your personal cocksucking experience. I loved the tips!
Kisses, cindy-lou
Theses tips are very helpful for a sissy slut in training like me thank you so so so much! <3
Wow, these are great tips, Lucy. I really enjoyed reading the blog. My mouth is literally watering just thinking about the scenario when reading. Thanks so much for the advice upon sucking and thanks for sharing. <3
i put in practice, and in the end I received my so awaited reward. I thanked him for his cum, smiling and kissing his penis softly. Best oral ever thank you Lucyyyyy
I found one thing that a lot of guys like as I suck their beautiful gorgeous dick is lightly itching scratching and playing with their ball with my finger nails, but it’s real light and can’t forget licking and sucking their balls then run my tongue all the way back up that gorgeous shaft of his taking the head of it back in my hungry mouth going back down on him and stroking it with my hand at the same time and get it to give me my reward. But the main thing is mix it girl and make the experience last and savor the moment and experience, and he’ll enjoy it and appreciate it so much more. Worship and please and pleasure his dick like every dick should be. XOXOXOXO 💋
So hot. I look at Bananas so differently now and buy the biggest I can get hehe
Love this post and every previous post. Gotta love a hard cock in your lips. Serving is a honour and making him cum is the best reward.
Great tips Lucy! Always trying to improve my cock sucking skills!
That’s amazing tips indeed Lucy, I’m an aspiring sissy residing also in malmo-sweden, never done anything with a guy before but lately I’ve been craving cock like crazy for some reason, I would love some further guidance if you do meet ups or on-line meetings.