Let’s imagine for a moment. You are a masculine guy. You’re attracted to women, you have male friends, everything is normal from the outside. But then, there’s that time of day when you’re on your own. You’re horny. You log on to a porn site. And certain fantasies begin to take hold.

1. You watch the girl on the screen sucking that huge, heavy cock, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like in your mouth.

2. Your own cock twitches at the thought. Maybe you go looking for some captions, or a video – something that really explores cock sucking as a fetish.

3. Soon enough, you’re shooting your load. Shooting your load at the thought of being made to suck cock.

4. You might look at the cum dripping down your shaft and wonder what it would taste like…

5. Then, finally, you come to your senses, and the realisation hits you. You just got turned on, thinking about sucking cock. And you’re left asking yourself…

Am I Gay?

The simple answer is no, of course. If you even have to ask, that should be enough to show you that you’re not secretly gay deep down. After all, you’re still turned on by girls, aren’t you? The real question is this:

Are you bisexual, or is this just a fetish?

That’s right – it’s actually very common for straight men to fantasies of sucking cock. It’s a very normal fetish for straight guys to have, and it does not make you gay.

You can think of it like just another fetish. It doesn’t make you a freak if you’re turned on by feet, or turned on by the idea of being dominated. Thinking about cock is no different, sweetie. Just thinking about cock doesn’t change anything about who you are. It doesn’t change your identity, or your orientation. It’s just a thought, and it’s just a fetish.

But if you’re not gay, how did you end up being so turned on by the idea of sucking cock? To answer that, we’ll need to dive into a little philosophy, psychology, and sociology, and by the end of it I hope you will have learned something about your sexuality, your fetishes, and maybe even your gender identity.

Strap yourself in, sissybitch.

Part One: Cock-sucking is your Fetish

You’ve always thought of yourself as a straight boy, right? Well, I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong. So let’s make it clear:

  • Spending hours thinking about cock doesn’t mean you want to look at cock.
  • Wanting to look at a rock hard cock doesn’t mean you want to touch a cock.
  • Wanting to touch a hot, throbbing cock doesn’t mean you want to suck a cock.
  • Wanting to suck a thick cock, and feel it push open your mouth, doesn’t mean you want to get fucked by a cock.
  • And wanting to get bent over, your panties ripped off, and to take that powerful cock deep inside your sissy-cunt… Still Doesn’t Make You Gay.

I can prove it to you.

Do you think about going on romantic dates with men? Do you think about kissing men? If one of your guy-friends made a move on you, would you feel happy, or uncomfortable? You see, you can have a super-strong craving for cock inside you, but it doesn’t mean you’re attracted to guys. Just Cock. 

Not men. Just Cock. Attraction to cock isn’t a sexual orientation – it’s a fetish. So let’s talk about kinks and fetishes.

A “kink” is anything you enjoy doing that other people might think is taboo. And a “fetish” is just anything specific that makes you aroused, other than thoughts of having sex. You know, you could think of people who like to look at a women’s breasts as having a ‘breast fetish’ – there are cultures in the world where it’s perfectly normal for women to wear nothing to cover their breasts, and it doesn’t send the men into a sexual craze. But when breasts are covered up, when a society makes it taboo and sexual to look at a woman’s breasts, it plants a seed in your brain. Sexual curiosity starts to grow.

The world says that you’re not allowed to be gay. You’re not supposed to even think about hard, cum-dripping cock. You’re not allowed to be feminine. You’re not allowed to dress like a slut. You’re not allowed to be a sissy. But the more the world tells you that you’re not allowed something, the more you want it. It’s inevitable, really. The stronger the taboo, the stronger the fetish.

Part Two: You Are Normal.

You might think that the world is divided into Straight, Gay, and a handful of bisexual outliers. If that was true it would mean that if you even had the slightest thought about sucking cock, then you’re likely a complete, raging homosexual.

What a silly idea.

Even most bisexual men are more attracted to women than they are to men. Sexuality is a spectrum, and we’ve known this for a long time. This is a diagram first published in Alfred Kinsey’s 1948 report “Sexuality in the human male”:

“The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats.… The living world is a continuum.” – Alfred Kinsey. 

Kinsey came up with a simple 7-point scale, intending to show that sexuality is fluid – and more importantly, that it can change. First, I want to show you responses from a 2015 survey of people from the UK:

The important point here is that the number of bisexual people massively outweighs the number of people who identify as exclusively gay. And less than *half* of people aged 18-24 identify as exclusively straight these days, as our society has changed to be more accepting of different sexualities.

But those men who are able to admit that they are turned on by the idea of cock – how many of them would actually be interested in having a relationship with another man? Most of them probably still identify as straight, because they know that having some fantasies of sucking cock doesn’t make you gay.

Part Three: Who’s afraid of being a sissy?

Dressing up like a girl doesn’t make you a girl, just like sucking cock doesn’t make you gay. Feeling romantically attracted to men and only men is what makes a person gay. Likewise, feeling like you are truly a girl, identifying as a girl is what would make you a girl. Otherwise, you’re just a sissy.

Being a sissy doesn’t have to be about questioning your gender identity. But it does have to be about questioning certain stereotypes. Why shouldn’t you wear makeup? Why shouldn’t you wear dresses? Why shouldn’t you act like a slut? Who’s decided all of these restrictions that “real men” have to obey?

You know what – deciding to put on a pair of lace panties was one of the bravest things you’ve ever done. – Deciding to buy yourself a dildo and practice sucking it.
– Deciding to choose a feminine name for yourself.
You’ve deliberately crossed a boundary that most men would be terrified to cross. 

You might be worried about your sissy-interests making you ‘weak’ or ‘less of a real man’, or a ‘beta’ – but who is braver?

A man who refuses to ever wear ‘girly’ panties?
Or a man who does so openly? 

A man afraid to be seen as feminine?
Or a man who calls himself a sissy-bitch?

DIVE DEEPER

You’ve had the courage to explore things that ‘Alpha’ men would wimp out of if given the opportunity. You’ve opened the door to experiences that ‘alpha’ Men would shy away from, no matter how good they feel. Can you imagine a Super-Straight, Alpha man fingering his prostate until he orgasms? Do you think he’d be brave enough to take that step? Or would he be too caught up in the idea that “I can’t do that, that would make me gay”?

You know better than that. 

And because you know better, you can go even further. 

You can suck every cock you find on Grindr, and it won’t make you gay.

You can meet men who know exactly how to pound your prostate and make your sissy-clit squirt, and it won’t make you gay. You can have guy after guy fuck and use you. You can have a male Master or Daddy own you. You can be a sissy bitch for life. 

It Doesn’t Make You Gay.

So, what do you think, sweetie? Has this helped reassure you? Are you ready to go out there and start sucking cock like a good girl? Leave a comment below to let us know.

188 thoughts on “Sucking Cock – Does it make you gay?

  1. Sissy Jill says:

    To me its a fetish. In “guy” mode (which is me normaly” im Straight and have no interest in guys at all. Infact, the thought of sucking a guy or having sex with a guy whilst as a guy turns me off completely. But when in “girl” mode all dressed up in a pretty dress, sexy lingerie on underneath, high heels, shaved all over and makeup done all i can think of is being with a man and pleasing him. Telling from experience, when you are on your knees worshipping a mans cock or being fucked by a man you feel more feminine than ever before.

    Yes, it takes a long time to work upto it, it took me a long time to work upto it. Only advice i can give is dont be desperate and go for the first man that will have you, take your time choosing a lover, there is thousands of losers on grindr that want their cock sucked and who will just treat you like subhuman. Ignore the ones that send dick pics straight away asking for right now. find somebody to just chat with first and go from there and if you have a preference for older/younger/ white/black/latino/tall guys/ muscled guys/ nonsmokers/non drug users then thats ok. Make it clear what YOU want, you will still get all the losers but you can just ignore them. You dont have to suck each and every guy if you dont want to. Even tho we are sissies we are still human too

  2. Carolynn says:

    One think I can say about the internet, for me, it has helpped me break down walls and find and except my true self. The internet has helpped me get past the guilt and the shame I carried from the day I was born. I not gay, giggle, just a proud sissy slut!

  3. RIC says:

    I agree it is good to be somewhat selective of the cocks you suck. I used to suck anyone who wanted a blow job, but I’m much more picky now. I’ve sucked off dozens of men, and settled on a half dozen favorite cocks. All 5+ inches when hard, circumcised, shaved, and a good track record of big cum shots. I usually suck them all once or twice a week. Sometimes they will bring along friends for me to suck, and they are very good about only bringing men who suit my preferences. If you have ever been sucked off around Somers, Montana, you have probably had your cock in my mouth.

  4. Donna says:

    Wonderful and insightful article. I’ve read it three times already.

    I don’t fantasize about dating guys. I fantasize about one day sucking a man’s penis and hopefully getting my cherry popped. I definitely focus on the cock, not the man.

  5. Catie says:

    Wow, that was an interesting and informative article. Love your gifs ^^.
    But I have a different attitude to this. It is really hard for me to have sex with someone for whom I do not feel anything. Just fetish is not enough :). I need something that I adore or like abouth this person, or maybe even love him. And It is very plesuring to know that that person have the same feelings to you. It feels differently. It improves quality of the process^^.
    There was a nice advise from sissy Jill from above. Thank you Jill.
    Peace and luck finding your man, or men(or just a nice cock XD ) to everyone. <3<3<3

  6. Rose` says:

    To answer the question, Does sucking cock make you gay? Well … it depends xD!

    If you suck cock and identify as a guy … yes your gay ( or bi ).
    If you suck cock and identify as a girl … your straight ( or bi ).

    Im a transgender female ( 31 yrs old ). When i used to be a guy, i tried being with a guy, but it didnt feel right. When i got dressed up, identified as a girl as was with a guy, it felt much better to me :)!

    I was a straight guy, im now a bi-sexual transgender female ( sissy 😉 ).

    In the end, it doesnt matter what label society put on you! Do what makes you happy. Go out there and live your best life girl :D!

  7. kristina says:

    what a great read… im what i thought was a straight male.. been dressing all my life… my desire for cock is through the roof

  8. Nicole says:

    I have sucked a few cocks would love to again, but also want more to be fucked as well as loved by a man who treats me as his girl friend wife want to be feminine 24/7 365 days a year do not see gay as being this or that way, just being me and how I feel express myself if some one has issues with it then that is on them

  9. Claudia says:

    I dress up as a woman
    I paint my nails
    I walk up in public area as a woman
    I love sucking cocks
    I love being kissed by men
    I’ve been fucked by hundreds on men
    I’ve never been in love with any man
    Now, I can say that in my past life I had many women, I have a wife but, we don’t make love for more than two years and the whole I said before started 5 years ago only.
    Who am I? A Sissy or something else?

  10. Claudia says:

    I forgot to say that I’m 59 years old and I’ve always used secretly dildos of every size, by myself only … till 5 years ago, when I decided to try making sex with a true man and then … hundreds followed, as I said.
    So again, who am I?

  11. Jaime Benoit says:

    i AM A PROUD SISSY COCKSUCKER AND CUMGUZZLER AND ALWAYS WILL BE AND I LOVE TO BE FUCKED IN MY FAT LITTLE ASS FOR DAYS. There I said it, I am proud to be a cocksucker and I love drinking down copious amounts of cum straight from the tap. I also love to be fucked in my phat sissy ass. it’s what I do to entertain myself and I enjoy the shit out of being a sissy slut who sucks cock.drink cum and gets fucked in the ass for days. So much so that I locked my clitty up and threw away the key. thats right I have been on lockdown for 2years and 31 days and I love it. I am proud to be a sissy slut in lockdown and always want to be this way!!

  12. Sophie spain says:

    This piece really opened my eyes to the fact that i don’t have feelings for men or romantic needs but that I just enjoy the fantasy of sucking cock. This has definitely made me more open to sucking cock in the future knowing I’m bisexual rather than specifically gay

  13. Tania says:

    Ugh totally agree! I’m not attracted to men like I am to women, but I’m absolutely obsessed with sucking and pleasuring a man’s cock. It feels soooo good to be a girl

  14. Sissy Amber says:

    There is just something about cock. No matter how much I love to look at women, I love sucking cock so much more than pussy. Just the word COCK makes my cock hard.

  15. Jenny says:

    Ohmy!! Reating every ONE OF your comments and stories got to me enough that I reached into my undies and got me wet with delight! I enjoy sucking cock and have since I was 12.
    I’m 70 now and am looking forward to my first trip to the bookstore with the glory holes and sit down theater. A man I met on the Internet told me I sucking cock sitting in the seat next to the door. I’m getting that idea stronger and stronger . I want t suck a LOT of cock on my first day in so called pubic (ooops) in public tee hee

  16. Niki says:

    I’m a bi male.I love women but I love sucking cock .I don’t like the man he doesn’t interest me I LOVE THE COCK. I LOVE TO SWALLOW AND I LOVE TO BEND OVER FOR A MAN. With a man it’s just SEX.

  17. Rosie says:

    I went through and sucked a oldish man off in his car when I broke up with my gf last year. He came so quick. Then he dropped me off. I felt a tiny bit bad but at least I was brave ay ❤️

  18. Daisy says:

    I luv women and want to enjoy feminine things. I also luv cock and cum. I am not gay, but luv sex with guys. I am a sissy and want to become a better cum loving cock sucking sissy slut

  19. Bambi says:

    For years I have struggled with this. I mean i still love girls. I still love to eat pussy and fuck them but now i have edged so much that it takes me a very long time to cum. Girls love that so it is not a bad thing. But i have had enough cock ad well that i love being anally fucked and love to suck cock. I am a dominate with women but a submissive with men. I prefer black cock but when it comes women any race is great. So I call myself bi but i also stay discreet because the crowd i run with adhere to old beliefs. Bi is bad. They would all ostracize me and so would my family. But i still like/love cock . I also love women.

  20. Michelle M says:

    Sucking cock, just makes me want to suck more cock. I’m always amazed at how hard my tiny cockette gets when I suck a good sized cock.

  21. joanna says:

    I love sucking and having cock and come play, I’m def a sissy and dress for sex. I don’t see myself as gay and this article sums it up. I am a sissy bitch crossdresser who like to be a girl during sex.

  22. Sissy pzoo says:

    I just love this article, though I don’t feels for my fellow man, all I wants is a lady controlling me sexually and cuming in my mouth anytime anywhere she likes. But when she gets me arouse and puts his hand in my mouth I begin to suck it, so she then bought a strap on and wears for me to suck and pound my ass hole for hours. She always address me as a slut. And thought I was a gay but this article has helped me figure out it’s just a fetish.

  23. Morrigan says:

    Ive always felt this way. I dont find men attractive. I dont want to kiss them or hold their hand. They are a tool to my satisfaction. Women are sexy as hell. But, they aren’t equipped to satisfy my every need.

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