Benefits of Chastity

For such a simple thing, the benefits a sissy can gain from wearing chastity are astounding! If you’re reading this then chances are you’re at least a little curious about locking your “cock” 😉 so let’s look at some of the plus points you can expect when you take the plunge, admit you should be locked and order a chastity cage.

Focus on your sissification 

Once you can’t stroke anymore you can focus on approaching your body in a much more feminine manner. All that wasted time can be much more productively spent on your sissification.

This can be done when you’re unlocked but when you’re in a cage, it becomes the norm instead of an optional extra that you need to work at.

It’s easier to focus on fashion or makeup when you’re locked (because you’re not going to get distracted by the pretty ladies) and watching porn becomes something inspirational that you can learn from instead of something to get yourself off too. Chastity wearing can be difficult and uncomfortable at first. We have created a chastity class for beginners so that you could extend your locking time from few hours to few months.

Purge resistance

I’ve lost count of the number or e-mails and DM I get saying “I really want to be a proper sissy but every time I cum, I lose the urge”. A lot of times when I point out, “then stop coming” it’s like I said the moon is made of elephants! 

Many, many sissies get stuck in a cycle of starting their sissification, then they release and pause things (or swear off it forever) and a week or two passes and they start again. Locking yourself safely away stops all of this. 

Once you can’t have a release, you can progress past this and reach the point where purging (and even the threat of purging) simply disappears because your sissy side becomes accepted as a valid part of your identity.

Stress relief

I imagine you’ve heard that jerking off relieves stress and this is true but pretty much any aerobic activity is equally as good. Locking yourself up can cause a little tension in the short term as your body adapts to the cage and it’s new situation, but after a couple of days your base level of stress will drop significantly.

An erect cock is a cause of stress and erotic tension because it’s a sign that you need to do something and it’s constantly calling out for your attention. Once you remove your ability to become erect, that stress ceases to exist and even better, your mood will even out a lot. 
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Emotional responsiveness

When you’re locked your ego gets suppressed and this makes it a lot harder for you to feel angry or frustrated and you’ll be able to hear your emotions much more clearly. This is something a lot of sissies are surprised by even though it goes hand in hand with what we’ve just talked about. Once you’re locked you become much more emotionally available and caring. 

One of our student’s wrote to tell us that they’d realised that once they’d started to wear a cage regularly, they had begun to focus more on the needs of others which had benefited their marriage and their work.

Energy

Not being at the beck and call of your clit gives you so much free energy that you won’t know what to do with it all. A lot of sissies lose weight when they start wearing a cage and it’s because they become much more in touch with their body and their new found energy makes exercise much more appealing. 

Eroticism

Your sissy sexuality will become supercharged. Everyone (hopefully) knows that if you can’t release your arousal will climb and climb but the things you watch and read and listen too will become so much more arousing and impactful too. 

Imagine you’re watching a sissy hypno video. Text is flashing up, “you’re not a man”, “feminize yourself”, “no pussy for you” and so on. Just watching this normally is hot, and it’s how a lot of people find their way to sissification, but watching it when you’re locked makes it so much hotter!

When you’re wearing a cage you’re not a man because you can’t fulfill the sexual role of a male. You’ve already started to feminize yourself and of course there’s no pussy for you, you’ve locked yourself in a cage! Chastity makes it hotter because it makes it real.

Releases

As well as making it so much easier for you to work on your sissygasm (because you can’t “slip” when you’re bouncing on a dildo and “accidentally” start stroking when you’re locked), when you do unlock after a while in chastity any releases, you have will blow your silly sissy mind. Whether you stroke, use a vibrator or just come in your panties because the sensation of them rubbing on your sissy clit is too much, locking yourself up for at least a week will give you mind blowing orgasms.

This will also push you to lock for longer…if it’s that good after a week, how about two…or a month…or a year?

If you don’t have any experience but want to get started, our “Chastity Training: Beginner” course will talk you through picking out the right cage to start with and build you up so you can lock for a week.

If you’re comfortable with the basics, look into our “Locked in chastity” assignments which let you pick how long you want to be locked for and keep you horny with daily tasks.

What are you waiting for? If you want the benefits, you need to start locking yourself!
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31 thoughts on “Benefits of Chastity

  1. julie says:

    Locking for a week to 10 days now. Going to get small pink cage to wear as it seems proper to replace my clear one. Looking for best milking toy now. Thank you

    • missy says:

      Hi Julie. I found if you stay away from transparent or open cages was best for me. This way I can’t see my clitty and if I can’t see my clitty I tend not to pay attention to it and tend to forget about it. I’m still looking for the best milking toy. Good luck…..

  2. Missy100599 says:

    Hello I keep myself in the holy trainer V4 Nano tube. I’ve been in sense September 1 2020. I started the Sissy Academy November 1 2020. I am doing my morning routines. I’m on day 11. I take my chastity off off for my morning routine. After the routine I put myself back in the chastity without any orgasm. After the first 30 days I’ve been trying to achieve sissygasm through self penetration. I was hoping chastity would help. In 2 month I have not been able to sissygasm. Hoping I may be able to get help here. Thank you.
    Missy

    • Sasha says:

      If you want to sissygasm, you need to stop masturbating to cum. When you do set up a specific time where you have atleast a full hour to yourself. And just find the spot that feels the best and keep exploring what feels good and look for that and it will just happen. Also in my experience small g spot vibrators work well I don’t ever use the vibrator part though.

  3. Nessa Rodgers says:

    I had always said chastity wasn’t for me in my previous and failed attempts at coming to terms with my self as a CD and/or sissy. Last night though I bought a cute little pink cage along with two good sized dildos and some buttplugs from Sissy Lover to assist me in my training at the Sissy Academy.

    I am *so* excited to try it on, it can’t come fast enough.

    • Stephanie says:

      I wish you the best… don’t force you at the first few tries to hard.
      Your body has to accept it and thats need time. Don’t forget to play with yourself daily at night so it will be easier to wear it longer. Don’t cum like a man it will end your try immediately the first times.
      So fuck yourself daily and cum like you should as a slutty girl with a big dildo or vibrator in the ass. Try to stay plugged the first time you wear it. So if you are not at home you also can enjoy the chastity better.
      Accept how are you….. and be proud of your girly side. Don’t follow bad thoughts. You are a pretty little naughty Slut, live it and learn to love it.
      It is wonderfull if you accept yourself as Sissy girl completely

      People like us are girls. We need it that way and it is good to be like that.
      Many people love our lifestyle and love to play with us. We are rare on this planet and becasue of that we can choose are man.
      We can choose who will dominate us and how often we can suck on delicious dicks. It is our way…. I am a proud Sissy Transgirl

      • Sissy Slut Lucy says:

        Omg! I got my first chastity for my sissy clitty in pink! My clit is a little big for it, but it absolutely loves being caged!!! Can’t stop precum yums 😜 made my boi pussy so tight, couldn’t quite fit my hella girthy 9″ BBC in tonight. I sure tried though! Had to use my less girthy 7″ BWC that is the size of the manhood I had up until this epic day! It is so amazing to not even think of a penis on my girly body, leaving me to use my hands for other things that feel way better overall! My body has been lightly sissygasming for 2 hours now and I’m not even done. I’m so horny I could go for being someone’s sissy slave. I can’t wait to take the assignments here! Can’t stop being horny! All dressed up sexy, collared, and beta spade tat on hip. Soon I shave my body. I’m tired of being in closet. Want real life to be this great.. I can only imagine a nice and tall huge boi pussy filling alpha male that accepts me for the girly little slut I wish to be/he makes me be. I love my dongs, but I want to submit to big sexy men! I want someone to just take my choices away, all I have is pleasure them, so I can get my man juice from them. I would love to try and be humiliated by one. I’m hoping maybe someday, I will be chosen by a Master to make me his sissy bitch wife. Chastity has got me submissive as fuck Lol where the water

        • Sissy Slut Lucy says:

          I’m in such a sissy bliss right now girls! So much I didn’t mean to say where the water in my last post without adding these next two words; -based and lube. I wish all you beautiful ladies the best of luck here and in life with our pursuit of being woman as we can get, with or without opting to lose our sissy clitty. I’m going to keep mine even though it is useless and inferior to my BBC. Maybe I will have a use for it sometime after it never gets unlocked again🥰 I just want to take and please real men and their yummy cum straws. The chastity is got me in this ßeta boi, big cock wantingness.i need to be came into everywhere and all over my sissified skinny ass. XOXO 💗💗 be you always all ways!

  4. Lack ts says:

    First thing, I want to thank you for accepting me into the school, I am very interested in sharpening my feminine mannerisms, and I find relentless happiness when in femme, I have developed superb edging skills , will a device for locking be required to complete the course? I ask sincerely, also I am open to prove my skills I have developed over the years if so please know I mean no disrespect,I am on a fixed income and only work part time do know that I will buy if you see fit my feminization I have decided to put first for a change, while some men will find great satisfaction, I adore the way my panties fit when I am tucked i sometimes go for many months never releasing I so enjoy being in ,femme I discovered the benefits of Chasity some time ago, how ever if mistress desires I shall order the device.thank you again for accepting me ,I know I have a lot to learn yet ,peace and love every one .

    • Stephanie says:

      Hey Sister,
      I hope you already bought a cage because you will love it. Not the first week but you will defintely love it…. Be carefull with the size if you have a small clitty, buy a small one or it will end uncomfortable for you.
      I prefer metal chastity… I like the feeling of it. But I also have expirience with plastic one. They are better for not play to much with it. It really locks you away and also if you want to play with your clitty, you barely can’t.
      It is more frustrating as a metal even you don’t come in both. The feeling if you play with it is nealy none… so some Sisters would say it is better so you concentrate more on your pussy and thats true but I also love to play with my clitty when I fuck my pussy. And then a metal is much better…..
      I am thinking about the start to wear it for the next 10 to 20 days and play with my everyday once. I want to improve myself…. to get more girly…. I already work as woman but sometimes I miss the feeling of being a real woman, not only a Sissy Slut.

      So I will start my try at 15.2.2021 and will wear my chastity also at work. I hope I make some improvements….
      What about u? how often you wear you chastity device? Are you more happy with it? What kind of chastity do you prefer?

  5. Pearl mystic starrlynn says:

    Well I’m a sissy coming out to be a trans. Never had a chastity. But I can play with .y boi pussy amd suck on my little dildo amd still not touch my little dick. I have a 1 inch small baby penis. And I can push it in with my little two peelers and hide it. o hate my penis. So I need a chatitt the most sm all last several made.

  6. robyn Peters says:

    I have been playing with chastity for a while, and must say that I agree. Being in chastity has changed my outlook, and has kept me from slipping back into the nasty habit of touching my clity without permission.
    Sissygasms are fantastic, and I hope to one day make them the only way I can have a release.
    I Have progressed from a normal size cage that a man might wear to please his wife and keep him from fooling around, to a tiny cage that shows that I really don’t have a man’s penis… I have a sissy clitty that NEEDS to be locked up all the time.

  7. Emily says:

    I’m currently locked in chasity. I’m locked in a 0.98 inch chastity device. It is helping me keep my mind on my sissifcation.

  8. Marci says:

    I have done chastity for short periods of time, all day basically. I’m looking forward to meeting a mistress in this course that can lock me for longer periods. I want to explore chastity a lot further. I am looking for a device that is equipped with a chain loop as well if any one knows one. I not only want to be locked but also be chained to a wall or led around by someone. This a perfect sign of a feminized sissy.

  9. Korina Brestevanski says:

    Ive been doing the sissy school and wearing chastity for a while now i just ordered a super tiny chastity cage. Ive vowed to shrink as much as possible all while taking feminizing hormones. Thank you so much for the encouragement and letting me realize who i really am 😊

  10. Stephanie says:

    First I want to thank you for the well written article. I locked myself instantly as I read it.

    Hey Sissy Sisters…
    How you doing? Are you still locked?
    I love being locked for a few days… I have a small metal chastity and I tease my self 4 times a day, sometimes more often.
    I love the feeling of the metal.
    How long should I stay in chastity…. This is my third time. My record is 4 days….
    Sometimes it is really hard to sleep… Any suggestions?
    Any advice?

  11. Bobbi says:

    Great article thank you.
    I recently purchased the man cage 01 at a local adult store, to avoid shipping embarrassment. I really wanted a pink one. I want to try it and this article gives me courage. I need to shave so putting it on wont be painful. I’ll let you know how it goes.

  12. Rich says:

    I was just accepted in to the Academy, and am taking this in-between stage to read “free Academy library of stories and bonus material.”
    I’ve heard of coming without touching my dick, by prostate manipulation, but have my doubts that is possibly for me. Plus, I enjoy Cumming from dick stimulation, the thought of losing that is scary. Is it true Prostate ejaculations can be more powerful than the other way?

  13. Jami says:

    When I was with my old Dom, he introduced me to chastity. From the very first time I was locked, it became intensely psychological as well. I felt more feminine pretty much instantly. And having sissygasms when locked is so awesome. The feeling is so intense. I currently don’t have a keyholder, but when I find the right Dom, it’s one of the first things we will talk about. I usually keep myself locked for most of the day, till right before I go to bed, and sometimes I sleep caged. I’m locked and plugged right now while I’m writing this. And am very happy about both!

  14. Luna says:

    I’m currently locked in a micro metal chasity cage. I’m locked all the day, It is helping me keep my mind on my sissifcation, I always sit to pee. I want to try a inverted chastity cage ( The idea behind this cage is to have a fully secure and sex free environment along with no outward appearance of a penis. The testicles are displayed but there is no shaft to be seen.)
    I practice with my dildo to coming without touching my dick, getting pleasure of my tits and the prostate ejaculations make my legs feel an earthquake

    • Tamarabj4 says:

      Luna I am so happy you are experiencing leg “quaking” sissygasms…..you are a genuine, hyper feminized, emasculated Sissy,giggling.

  15. Sissy jessica says:

    I don’t have a chastity cage cause I can’t afford one but I do rub my clitty instead of stroking it and my orgasms are even better and just wanted to thank the academy for this course

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