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8 Reasons why you should start crossdressing

Crossdressing means: wearing clothes of opposite sex. But as a sissy, crossdressing is something more than that. Biologically it may be dressing as the “opposite sex”, but you’re a sissy – you ARE a feminized girly slut, so crossdressing is not just dressing as something “opposite”, it’s an important expression of the femininity that already exists within you! Therefore it must be appreciated and embraced for a sissy girl to be truly happy! You should never doubt, or feel ashamed, for something that is an expression of your inner identity, and as a sissy it is time to learn why you should be a fabulous crossdresser and never be ashamed of it!

 

1. Crossdressing is a means of sissy training

As straightforward as this might sound, it cannot be ignored how crossdressing will prompt you to be in a feminized state regularly, allowing you to get in touch with your girly identity by actually being dressed in femme as often as possible! After all, doing is learning. Good practice of being femme outside of your sissy sexuality is invaluable, as you’ll find that you’ll be understanding yourself more and more as you dress up, learning how to look and act pretty, strutting your sexy body and figuring out more and more ways to make men cocks hard in a purely feminine essence!  Furthermore, when dressing thoughts of being a sissy girl are magnetized into your subconsciousness by the repeated affirmations of femininity that comes from dressing up. Soon enough you’ll find yourself able to transform into girl mode as soon as your blood is rushing down in your pants.

 

2.  Exercising creativity and developing your artistic prowess!

sissy in front of mirror learning to apply makeup

Crossdressing is often mistaken as just throwing on whatever you can find that is for women, then reveling in the excitement of wearing women’s clothes. However, crossdressing is simply so much more! It’s a very demanding hobby, and will take research and knowledge of fashion trends which you will then twist and turn into fabulous outfits that will downright swell up every cock in the room! Learning how to best pair a mini skirt with your crop top, how to fashion your wig to accentuate your boobs or walk in a pair of high heels with your fishnets. Body shaping to bring out the best of your curves whilst being able to match your colours in a way that expresses your sissy personality! Want to look lustrous and sophisticated? Wear neutral office colours. Want to look like a street whore? Colourful, revealing and tacky! Cute princess? Cosplay and babydoll dresses! You got to learn and pair! Of course, this is integral to makeup – which takes time, effort and dedication to learn how to apply. Skill will develop over time and practice, but the fun and creativity will be with you now and always!

 

 


3. Getting male attention!

A lot of sissies can vouch for that, after taking a girly photoshoot, picking out your favourite pics and uploading them sissy in slutty stockings making selfieonline is a process which is deeply enthralling and oh so satisfying. Likewise, with those girls who pose for men on Omegle, Chaturbate etc – the excitement derived from watching a real man cum simply from your girliness is unlike anything else!

Besides you’re a sissy girl aren’t you? You’re just an attention whore that seeks validation by serving men and making mistress proud. And guess what, you can do just that by exposing your beautiful sissy stature to the world that is hungry for sissy bimbos like you! So why dress up in average underwear or an old dress, and receive a few upvotes and nice messages – when you can instead dress like a proud girly slut and receive hundreds of upvotes, dozens of private messages of men aching to dominate your boy pussy and countless other stroking their fat cocks solely for you to perform on webcam!

 

4. Getting into shape!

Crossdressing is not always easy. And often, the biggest hindrance to your girly look is from your own body. Yes, some things we cannot help, like broad shoulders for example, but even these things don’t stop our favourite trans role models from looking simply gorgeous. No, the key to looking like a beautiful trap queen is entirely achievable by committing yourself towards getting that sexy sissy body! With exercise, you can eliminate fat % and develop an hourglass figure, get a bigger and plump ass, and striking legs that will make any man swoon for you! Of course, exercising is important for all aspects of your life, not only will you be getting a sexy body, but your health will improve drastically. You will feel more energetic, happy and calm. You will love yourself, reduce anxiety and develop your self-confidence. Who said being a sissy isn’t productive? So, crossdressing is a great way to motivate yourself into getting in shape. You will look sexier, feel sexier, and make yourself a happier and healthier sissy! Now let’s improve that squat game!

 

5. Building your girly wardrobe!

sissy in store looking for high heels

Guess what sissy, now that you like to dress up as a girl, you’ve opened yourself to a vast new world that is GIRL SHOPPING! Yay! A sissy loves to shop, apart from submitting to big huge cocks, this is her second favourite activity. Girly shopping is unlike male shopping in soooo many ways. Men have fewer options to choose from, and barely any accessories and different choices of clothing compared to women. Crossdressing will have you searching far and wide for that perfect crop top, that sexy pencil skirt, that insanely naughty bralette and of course the millions of cute pretty panties and sexy thongs. You will have so much fun building your own girly wardrobe, and each time you try on a new item the excitement and glee in doing so will be felt again each and every time.

 

 

6. Having a sense of purpose

Like all great hobbies, there is always a focus on something you can attain if you work for it. You can dress up in countless styles and explore a range of different girly personalities. Want to look like your favourite role model or a fictional character? Buy their outfits, adopt their makeup style! You can also enjoy being able to express your sissy secret in your day to day life; maybe wear panties during your daytime activities, painted toes and cute lingerie hidden under your day clothes. You can dress up and meet other crossdressers, and engage in a large and vibrant community!

7. Stress Relief

Outside of sissyhood, life can be stressful and exhausting. Responsibilities can always become tiresome and tedious. Fortunately for you, crossdressing is fabulous way to escape the boundaries of life in a fun and arousing way! Crossdressing is a deeply sexual form of expression for sissy girls. Playing with yourself while dressed in sexy lingerie is like a happiness drug that helps to forget daily problems. The thought of a juicy cock fucking your mouth or thrusting inside your boy pussy is liberating and exciting. This makes you feel stronger and more recharged than ever. Now you can get that happier and stress-free sissy glow! You only need to ensure yourself: There is nothing wrong with crossdressing

 

8. Acceptance

sissy daddys girl on floor taking selfie

A true and content sissy girl understands that there is absolutely no shame in crossdressing, but instead the opposite; pride. A femboy loves herself and

 understands that her femininity is as a part of her colourful and broad identity which does not change or overwhelm any other part of her life. She dresses like a slut because she wants to! She acts and moves like a princess because she feels like it, and she enjoys it. She doesn’t care what people may think, because she knows how to live on her own terms! A sissy crossdresser transcends everything we know about conventional sexuality, sissies experience sex throughout the broad spectrum of human sexuality and all the more happier for it!  She doesnt fall victim to boring, restrictive social norms, she’s too good for them! If you have problem with it, but you embrace being a sissy and want to crossdress full time. I suggest joining Sissylover Sissy Academy.

 

60 thoughts on “8 Reasons why you should start crossdressing

  1. Rose says:

    I’m so excited going fully into sissification yesterday I bought 2 cute short skirts with pink ribbon.
    I want to start taking breast enhancing pills

    • Dan says:

      I love yo dress in lingerie mostly. I get so excited putting on gstring panties, bra, hose, nails, lashes. I would love to do makeup with a professional
      I am hooked on cock though ,can’t get enough
      Being in lingerie only accelerates my desire to please a man.

  2. Cumbunny says:

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  3. Jazmine says:

    I have been dress as woman since I graduated from high school and in the military I love been woman but I can’t be a sissy. I do love sucking cocks and I am good at both giving women a good lick make them cums I’m in charge not man

  4. julia-sophie says:

    I wear bras,panties and even silky,feminime blouses on a daily basis.It feels so right.Even my clit is shrinking to a satisfying 3cm.Sissy forever !

  5. steve says:

    I’ve cum to realize I was born to be sissy. I’m such a femboy now. My little sissy clit is so small. 3 inches hard. I know there isn’t a girl alive that would want me to even try to fuck her so I now understand my role in life. I’m to worship cock. Suck cock. Fuck cock. Swallow cum. I need a black master to own me and tell me what to do for him. I’m a slave to bbc. I fuck my sissy ass with an oversize dildo preparing it for a monster cock in the future.

    • Sissycandice says:

      I am a true Sissy, but I worship all cock and will serve my owner,mistress/master whom ever so tells me that I am their property.
      I will become the best SissyWhore for them and will gladly do ANYTHING, ANYBODY AND EVERYONE THAT I AM ASKED FOR THEM

  6. Shirley says:

    I have been crossdresser for most of my life and would like to take the next step to be totally feminized

  7. Tammi Love says:

    My breasts have started to grow. I crave cock all the time, especially BBC. After Sissy training, I may just go all the way, and get my pussy installed, and become a pornstar

    • Eddie Freeman says:

      I totally agree with you on that. I’ve been a cross-dressing for 15 years and I totally love black cock and if I can get a sex change I would do p**** movies just so I can do more black guys and get paid for it so I’d be doing something I love I’d be doing a lot of work

  8. Lynnzie says:

    I’m a lifelong C/D, and I’ve always been a sissy down deep. I’m dreaming of warm, fat cocks all the time now. I’m getting pounded daily with my 7″ dildo, but it’s time for the real thing. Can’t wait!

  9. Nixa says:

    Im soo excited finally i have become a sissy baby.Now i can enjoy monster cocks even a double anal feels good to me. Specially that embarssing punishments given by my owner infront of soo many male and females and that one on roads n streets are just love. Love u all sissy babies.Just transformed from a boy to sissy.

  10. Sissy Annette says:

    Sissy Annette secretly started wearing her mom’s silky panties,
    silky nylon and feminine lace trimmed half slips, and nylon stockings, and more, she fell in love with this lingerie.
    She enjoys and loves silky lingerie and it became part of her
    ever since then, and into her private closet adulthood life, and she doesn’t regret it at all.
    It keeps her calm and relaxed.
    She gets embarrassed when she buys her pretty and feminine lingerie in stores with women sales associates there,
    while she is in her boring drab male clothes.
    She can’t wait to get home to wear
    the new silky lingerie she bought
    that day .
    She is hetero, but she fantasizes about being crossdressed and being
    Bi with women and men ?.
    Maybe 1 day ?.

  11. Katie says:

    Hi Ladies, I’ve been dressing in secret since I was very young. Having been raised with all sisters to me it always felt natural. But as you know reality stops you from doing what you love sometimes. But I’m so ready to just be my self and enjoy my life ???

    • SissyFreya says:

      Hi everyone
      My wife found me dressing 2 yrs ago – her friend Debs saw me out and told her. They set a trap and found me one early evening- The you know what hit the fan and it wasn’t nice. I’ve always been effeminate (shaved legs arms and undercarriage ) shaped my nails and eyebrows- they checked my laptop, found sites I visited and gave me an ultimatum- dress 24/7 as a sissy maid – lose my Male clothes and go on hormones. Easy decision- I’m now SissyFreya the gay maid – I was locked in normal size chastity, then down to medium for six months, then small for another six months and now I’m locked in the “very small”. This has caused Atrophy- shrinking- I was 5” and now I’m 2” and my shaft has lost a lot of muscle and is like a girls little finger. My testes are like two Maltesers! In fact Helen (my wife) is having me go to a clinic in November to have my testes removed and I can’t wait. My bubble butt is loved by all men and I let them bareback me regularly at naughty places I frequent (Sauna Sauna Northwich England) my wife has a lover (Paul her boss) and he practically lives at our house now. I have given him my blessing and given him my wedding ring to wear when they go out together- the whole family knows I’m their sissy maid and I wait on at family gatherings. Debs is in charge of my sissygasms, she milks my prostate once per week and videos me with paying clients who fuck me. She sells the clips on line (Clips for sale). I’m to have large breast implants in he spring next year and really look forward to that – kisses – SissyFreya xxxx

  12. Penelope says:

    I dont know why I love to crossdress,
    I dont care why I love to crossdress.
    All I know is that it is a part of me, and it makes me a happier person.

    • Kevin Floyd says:

      I Love to crossdress it makes me feel so good. Now my wife love’s to dress me up and her friends too. Now they always fuck me like I’m the woman and there the men. But we are still ourselves but they always tell me oh your so femme anyway and they love being the men! It’s been wonderful since then them being like that! It just feels right! Bye!

  13. TinaRivaire says:

    I’ve been crossdressing since forever. I can remember locking myself in my moms room to use her shower and would somehow always find myself drawn into her walk in closet to explore her lingerie drawers.
    My mom was very attractive and had excellent taste in clothes and “unmentionables”.
    I would get all tramped up in her baby doll nighties, seamed nylons, full red haired wig and go thru the adult ads in the “Berkely Barb” finding m4t, m4m and BDSM ads that I would call fantasizing about what was going on and hoping to talk dirty while my pre-teen penis was rock hard in my moms bali or vassaret panties.

  14. Arissa says:

    I had been cross dressing or about 6 years before I told my girlfriend my secret. She was inexperienced so I had to teach her how to wear the lingerie. Her mind was blown when I walked in wearing 6″ Platform high heels with seamed stockings, a miniskirt garter with a school girl miniskirt on top and a lacy matching bra. My hair is chest length so I put it up in pigtails and last but not least I had put on eyeliner, eyeshadow, an lipstick. I walked in like a slut yearning for pussy and while shaking she immediately got naked and grabbed other lingerie I had laid out on the bed. Out of my collection she chose a similar outfit to me and promptly transformed into the sluttiest nympomaniac I’ve ever seen. She pulled my dick out and sucked it feverishly until I was about to cum I told her and she pulled out and jerked me off all inside her mouth, on her cheeks, neck, and titties. Before I could go soft she immediately shoved my dick inside her while she was lying on her belly so she could squeeze my dick as I lied on top of her. It felt like she could suck my dick with her pussy. It was the best sex I’ve ever had. I was able to completely be myself sexually with a woman I loved. We both quivered in orgasmic extacy while embracing in a copious lock. She kissed me and swapped cum into my mouth and told me to swallow it and in the heat of the moment it made me so fucking hard that we ended up fucking again.

  15. TR says:

    Soon after I got my chastity cage my dominant mistress wife told me men in chastity usually want to be champions of denial or to be sissied up in female underwear. Told me it was my choice but she’d put me a bra set in my drawer if I needed it! She introduced a points system with triple points for wearing the bra & panties so if I do it every day I can get my release in 20 days rather than 60.
    All along she’s insisted it’s my choice but she’s holding all the aces & we both know whether this lock up or the next one she was going to make it happen!
    After two weeks I knew Id struggle to get to 60 days & tried the bra on. I looked hideous so quickly took it off again. But the next night the mrs was out & i was back in the bra – this time removing the tags & padding it out to see what it felt like for a couple of hours. Felt incredibly submissive & decided it was time to keep it on until she got home. I’d been longing for her return but when I heard the car I chickened out but their not easy to get off quickly & she walked in as id got my t-shirt off & was struggling to undo the bra! she was like a cat that’d got the cream laughing that she’d expected me to put up more of a fight.
    Only been doing it a few days since & I don’t understand why its making me feel so horny and submissive – I’ve never even thought about crossdressing before. In that short time I’ve gone from feeling ashamed I’d caved in so easily to happily putting them on as part of getting changed when I get home and enjoying the mrs being unusually affectionate to me while she gets me used to it. She’s reassuring – telling me weve done straight subbing for years and not to feel ashamed or embarrassed as we’re at the start of something new & beautiful!
    Though i cringe at that thought it feels exciting as well – I know how good she can be but I also know this is going to a different level to anything I’ve done as her subby before & I’m confused by how I’m feeling & what I’m getting into. This article hasnt helped me either – but I’m already hooked. She knows she’s reeled me in too – in one of her less reassuring moments she summed up where I’m at a bit too candidly – I might be a reluctant sissy but I’m still a sissy! True of course but it’s come out the blue & will take some getting used to.

  16. Terra says:

    I started wearing my mom’s panties and i felt like i was wearing the right clothes, but i had to put it back. But i needed that feeling do one day i visited my friend and when he was doing something I asked his sister for a pair and i came out to her and she agreed! Now i borrow clothes from her every now and then

  17. Kay says:

    I have started cd when i was young with my family members lingerie and have been turned on to it ever since now that I’m older especially when i smoke crack or meth and drink. I love to be feminine slutty cd and suck cock and get fucked slowly. Today i was at a store to buy lingerie but was nervous. I didnt buy it… Any advise?

    • Josie says:

      I started out similar to you would wear nylons and such started about 9! Then about 10-15 years ago I started to dress more especially when I smoked crack! Now I have several outfits, shoes, wigs, makeup, shave my legs chest face and armpits

  18. Maurice D Slaughter says:

    yeah im new to crossdressing but it make me feel alive. I consider myself half and half and I think I do them both well

  19. AllisonXOXO says:

    There is nothing more exciting then going out fully dressed. I have only done it a handful of times, but with training and encouragement, I hope to start dressing full time. It feels so right!

  20. Penelope says:

    My wife dresses me up like a little sissy slut and it feels so good! I just got my first cock cage a few weeks ago and I’m loving it! One day I hope to suck cock for her and be the complete sissy slut I dream of being!

  21. Sissy Boy says:

    I’d love to be owned by BBC !!! I dream about swallowing cum and having my ass hole stretched out every day and every night!!! IM A SISSY!!!

  22. Emilydorianne says:

    I totally want to be sissy boy I love cock big and juicycock love dressing up especially in peticoats and maid outfits.I want to transition right away. Nothing like being dressedup.

  23. Janine says:

    I debated about if I should leave a reply or not.
    After reading some of the replies from other crossdressers ,I decided to tell my story
    Being a life-long crossdresser, I was more then content to just crossdress to make myself look like any twenty something girl that you’d see out in stores or restaurants
    Time went on and I aged
    I couldn’t pass as a twenty something girl anymore
    I realized that and changed my appearance into a middle age girl
    Now here I was wondering what the next step would be?
    Well the next step was finding out that I was becoming interested in men
    Not men per say ,but their cocks
    I was obsessed with cock. I thought about cocks most of the time, weather I was dressed en femme or wearing my drab male clothes
    On a whim, I went on vacation to the Florida Keys a known area for crossdressers and gay people.
    It didn’t take long to find a fellow crossdresser who was there alone.
    We struck up a friendship and we both found out that cock was something that we both were interested in
    We were both feminine looking girls, but we both also had cocks
    After being out at a club, drinking and having fun, we went back to the hotel where I was staying
    In a awkward situation, we were saying goodnight, when she pulled me close to her and kissed me.
    Oh my, it was the best kiss that I ever had.
    One kiss led to lot’s more and before I knew it we were in my hotel room making out like schoolgirls
    Kissing and exploring our bodies, removing articles of our clothing, until we both were down to bras and panties
    She took my cock out of my panties and began rubbing it and stroking it
    This made me do the same thing to her.
    Her cock was longer than mine and had a drop of pre cum oozing out of the head of it
    I couldn’t resist. I put my mouth on her cock and put it inside tasting seman for the first time
    It was salty tasting, but I liked it.
    She pushed me down on the bed and mounted me Kissing me and poking her cock at my gurl pussy
    She pushed her cock inside of me taking my breath away and began fucking me.
    Then she said something that I had always wanted to hear
    She called me a cunt and I melted
    We ended up sleeping together and she fucked me two more times before morning
    I being the submissive one, sucked her cock in the morning when we woke up
    I love the taste of seman and the feeling of having a cock in my mouth
    I also like giving my gurl pussy to men
    It makes me feel like I am a girl with a cock in my cunt, especially when the man cums inside of me filling me up with his cum
    I guess that I’ve become a sissy, but I don’t care
    I just need to find someone to treat me as a girl and fuck me like I’m a girl full-time

  24. Janine says:

    Yes you are right Allison. There’s no better feeling then going out dressed en femme for the first time. You’re heart is racing and you’ll be as nervous as can be, but once you are out there and you realize that nobody is paying attention to you you’ll feel like you are just another girl out in public, doing things that girls do. Once you are comfortable out there, go ahead and go into a ladies room. This is a experience that you’ll never forget. Ladies rooms for the most part are a lot cleaner than men’s rooms
    All the stalls are pristine clean and have locks on the doors
    You’ll feel totally feminine when you pull your panties down and sit on the toilet, to relieve yourself
    I absolutely love using the ladies room and I think that you will to
    Just hold your head up high and smile as you open the door to enter the ladies room
    No one will pay attention to you as long as you look like you belong in there
    Good luck with your crossdressing
    I hope you will enjoy being seen as a girl

  25. Missy says:

    I guess that I could be considered a sissy. I met a crossdresser, while I was on vacation and we had lots of things in common
    The thing that we mostly had in common was that we both were curious about cocks
    Neither one of us had any experience with men.
    We mutually agreed to bare our own cocks, so we could fondle each other’s, to see what would happen
    Well, what happened was, his cock was standing straight up in a way that I couldn’t resist It.
    Instead of fondling it, I gave him a blow job. It was incredible. I couldn’t remember ever being as turned on and horney as I was, as I was blowing him
    When he came, he withdrew from my mouth and shot his cream all over my face. Some of it I was able to get in my mouth and swallowed it
    He wasn’t interested in giving me head. He was extremely excited about the way that my cock looked and told me that he wanted me to fuck him. I was a little apprehensive about doing it, but he assured me that he loves having a dildo in his ass and not to worry about it it would fit
    After we started kissing and touching each other he presented his ass to me and I mounted him and put my cock in his ass pussy and fucked him and came inside of him
    This is why I consider myself a sissy

  26. Kyrsten says:

    I’m so jealous! All I have in my collection right now is a lacy black camisole, green satin undies (not even a thong!), and some 4″ heels.

  27. Molly the sissy says:

    The first thing I do when I finish work each day is decide braless C cup or bra with D.

    My closet is still 90% man costumes but if I have a clean dress or skirt I wear that the rest of the night… With stockings of course.

    Only one pair of shoes right now but I’ll wear them most nights.

    All of that and it didn’t occur to me that I was a sissy. Signed up for training now and just got accepted. So excited.

  28. Lexi Meredith says:

    These replies are sooooo hot and I know I am in the right place.

    All my life I have known I was different, a bit smaller and feminine looking but living the hetero life, or trying.
    I started wearing moms lingerie and panties, loved the feel of her lacy slips and thongs, I would wear them whenever I could even in bed.
    I would fantasise about being with other men, but those were the days when it was still “wrong”.
    I began camming and messaging to build up confidence, still haven’t been with another guy but I hope it is cumming soon hehe.
    Over the years I built up my (secret) collection from friends and family, before buying some of my own lingerie, dildos and plugs. I have started playing with chastity and nipple clamps too hehe.

    I am on this amazing journey to explore and understand myself, I get so excited reading other stories knowing I am no longer the only one like me, and I feel so comfortable dressed in my girly clothes, practicing being sexy like a good girl and preparing to take my place serving other men and women as a sissy.

  29. Sissy Sarah says:

    This weekend and today I am going to be a girl and start taking pictures of myself and see if I get any responses from men who would like to fuck me. This will be a great test to see if I can attract any men. If I can going to give my first blow job.

  30. crisissy7416 says:

    Just joined and am reading up on material! I think it would be cool to have an article dedicated to exercises and diets for sissies!

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